22歲畢業生迷路在人生沙漠 - 公職
By Puput
at 2020-10-03T16:13
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Table of Contents
各位好
在下家中有個22歲的妹妹
目前大學剛畢業,畢業於私立大學
難找工作的科系(真的ㄎㄎ)
英文差(說實話我也不知道她能幹嘛)
做過超商打工和靠關係才有的國小課後班老師
畢業到現在每天都在玩電腦(目前沒工作)
作息不外乎睡到下午玩到晚上
家人似乎還抱持著希望他去考公職的想法
希望她去補習班蹲個一兩年考國考
,因為他比我小兩歲,所以雖然我從自己大學剛畢業後都不在乎我妹的狀況,
不過家父前一陣子正式退休,我發現我妹從剛上大學的廢樣到現在都沒變,我開始擔心我妹
的未來,說穿了也擔心我家的未來
多次和家父提議立刻切斷金援
但我爸秉持著給她兩年的時間
到時候考不上再想辦法
說來慚愧,我和我妹的關係一直不好
說實話我到現在都看不起她,也沒有想過去幫她
因為我一直認為裝睡的人是叫不醒的
但是隨著出社會及父母快要60歲
擔心她會成為我之後的負擔
於是才上來問問看大家的看法
其實我也不知道這是我的課題還是我妹的課題
我身邊的人沒有一個和我妹一樣不成材
也不知道怎麼跟認識的人聊這一塊
我目前認為就是因為我爸持續給她支柱
而且給了過多的零用錢才導致我妹這個廢樣
但是站在我也是曾經這麼拿錢過和住在家裡也住了一年的角度去想,我沒什麼資格叫我爸現
在就讓她走。
不知道版上的各位有沒有這種兄弟姊妹
也想問問各位的家庭最後是怎麼克服這種問題的,麻煩各位了
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在下家中有個22歲的妹妹
目前大學剛畢業,畢業於私立大學
難找工作的科系(真的ㄎㄎ)
英文差(說實話我也不知道她能幹嘛)
做過超商打工和靠關係才有的國小課後班老師
畢業到現在每天都在玩電腦(目前沒工作)
作息不外乎睡到下午玩到晚上
家人似乎還抱持著希望他去考公職的想法
希望她去補習班蹲個一兩年考國考
,因為他比我小兩歲,所以雖然我從自己大學剛畢業後都不在乎我妹的狀況,
不過家父前一陣子正式退休,我發現我妹從剛上大學的廢樣到現在都沒變,我開始擔心我妹
的未來,說穿了也擔心我家的未來
多次和家父提議立刻切斷金援
但我爸秉持著給她兩年的時間
到時候考不上再想辦法
說來慚愧,我和我妹的關係一直不好
說實話我到現在都看不起她,也沒有想過去幫她
因為我一直認為裝睡的人是叫不醒的
但是隨著出社會及父母快要60歲
擔心她會成為我之後的負擔
於是才上來問問看大家的看法
其實我也不知道這是我的課題還是我妹的課題
我身邊的人沒有一個和我妹一樣不成材
也不知道怎麼跟認識的人聊這一塊
我目前認為就是因為我爸持續給她支柱
而且給了過多的零用錢才導致我妹這個廢樣
但是站在我也是曾經這麼拿錢過和住在家裡也住了一年的角度去想,我沒什麼資格叫我爸現
在就讓她走。
不知道版上的各位有沒有這種兄弟姊妹
也想問問各位的家庭最後是怎麼克服這種問題的,麻煩各位了
--
Sent from my iPhone 6s
○ PiTT // PHJCI
--
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