24歲了很煩惱不知道可以找誰談... - 醫生
By Ophelia
at 2019-03-18T01:59
at 2019-03-18T01:59
Table of Contents
各位版友大家好,我遇到一些自己沒辦法想通的事,想請教一下大家的意見謝謝!
-
我是私立大學化學系畢業,應屆那年因為猶豫不決所以沒什麼心在準備,最後上了中字輩
化學所。
但心中知道自己是能考上四大的,所以決定休學重考。
結果不是輸給學弟妹,輸給自己的傲氣和惰性,落榜了...也只好回去復學就讀,但心中
一直很不甘心。
-
我覺得我是一位自尊心很強也對自己要求很高的人,小時候沒有什麼特別的專長,只有比
較會讀書而已,所以「能把書讀好」成為了我的成就感和自信心來源。
國中也都保持前三的成績,高中如願考上第一志願,但高中時叛逆期所以大學考差了,現
在的研究所也不怎麼樣...
看著曾經在我背後的人,現在都在我前頭了,有的考上了頂大、有的出國唸書、有的當了
公務員,這些人事物都讓我覺得自己真的很失敗......我怎麼會變成這樣??
每當我跟家人談到我待在這間學校很不快樂,他們都會告訴我這學校哪裡不好?國立的啊
!
但我就是跨不過去...真的沒辦法接受自己唸這裡!
我一直在思考,為什麼我的心裡這麼過不去這關?我到底在追求什麼?
最後我得出的結論是:我是一個虛榮的人...追求著光環和被人肯定...
很膚淺我知道但不知道怎麼改變......
-
希望各位能給我一些比較實際又能符合我想追求的事的建議......
1. 我現在已經碩一了,如果重考明年的研究所,假設我真的考上了
優:終於拿到想要的名校學歷
缺:已經有一個四中碩了,還要再讀另一個頂大碩,27歲畢業雙碩沒有工作經驗
2. 好好的把碩士唸完,工作幾年再去國內或國外唸博班
優:博士的起薪較優,地位也較高
缺:博班幾乎都需要4、5年,如果還要跟另一半結婚組家庭,不知道能不能克服
3. 把碩班唸完,工作幾年,考後醫圓醫生夢
優缺我相信大家比我還了解就不用寫了
-
謝謝把文章看完的人,要給建議、要罵我天真的都可以但希望可以溫柔一點QQ
我真的不知道身邊有誰能理解我的想法,不知道找誰談比較適合,也不知道該往哪個方向
去想才是對我好的有幫助的......
看著大家朝目標前進,自己卻這麼失敗真的好難受...
--
-
我是私立大學化學系畢業,應屆那年因為猶豫不決所以沒什麼心在準備,最後上了中字輩
化學所。
但心中知道自己是能考上四大的,所以決定休學重考。
結果不是輸給學弟妹,輸給自己的傲氣和惰性,落榜了...也只好回去復學就讀,但心中
一直很不甘心。
-
我覺得我是一位自尊心很強也對自己要求很高的人,小時候沒有什麼特別的專長,只有比
較會讀書而已,所以「能把書讀好」成為了我的成就感和自信心來源。
國中也都保持前三的成績,高中如願考上第一志願,但高中時叛逆期所以大學考差了,現
在的研究所也不怎麼樣...
看著曾經在我背後的人,現在都在我前頭了,有的考上了頂大、有的出國唸書、有的當了
公務員,這些人事物都讓我覺得自己真的很失敗......我怎麼會變成這樣??
每當我跟家人談到我待在這間學校很不快樂,他們都會告訴我這學校哪裡不好?國立的啊
!
但我就是跨不過去...真的沒辦法接受自己唸這裡!
我一直在思考,為什麼我的心裡這麼過不去這關?我到底在追求什麼?
最後我得出的結論是:我是一個虛榮的人...追求著光環和被人肯定...
很膚淺我知道但不知道怎麼改變......
-
希望各位能給我一些比較實際又能符合我想追求的事的建議......
1. 我現在已經碩一了,如果重考明年的研究所,假設我真的考上了
優:終於拿到想要的名校學歷
缺:已經有一個四中碩了,還要再讀另一個頂大碩,27歲畢業雙碩沒有工作經驗
2. 好好的把碩士唸完,工作幾年再去國內或國外唸博班
優:博士的起薪較優,地位也較高
缺:博班幾乎都需要4、5年,如果還要跟另一半結婚組家庭,不知道能不能克服
3. 把碩班唸完,工作幾年,考後醫圓醫生夢
優缺我相信大家比我還了解就不用寫了
-
謝謝把文章看完的人,要給建議、要罵我天真的都可以但希望可以溫柔一點QQ
我真的不知道身邊有誰能理解我的想法,不知道找誰談比較適合,也不知道該往哪個方向
去想才是對我好的有幫助的......
看著大家朝目標前進,自己卻這麼失敗真的好難受...
--
Tags:
醫生
All Comments
By Ida
at 2019-03-20T00:44
at 2019-03-20T00:44
By Hazel
at 2019-03-20T05:26
at 2019-03-20T05:26
By John
at 2019-03-23T00:20
at 2019-03-23T00:20
By Steve
at 2019-03-26T00:57
at 2019-03-26T00:57
By Jack
at 2019-03-28T08:55
at 2019-03-28T08:55
By Andy
at 2019-04-01T01:52
at 2019-04-01T01:52
By Andrew
at 2019-04-05T00:37
at 2019-04-05T00:37
By Suhail Hany
at 2019-04-06T04:03
at 2019-04-06T04:03
By George
at 2019-04-07T18:56
at 2019-04-07T18:56
By Isabella
at 2019-04-08T22:40
at 2019-04-08T22:40
By Annie
at 2019-04-12T19:52
at 2019-04-12T19:52
By Victoria
at 2019-04-16T04:20
at 2019-04-16T04:20
By Ivy
at 2019-04-19T06:49
at 2019-04-19T06:49
By Andy
at 2019-04-22T04:50
at 2019-04-22T04:50
By Daph Bay
at 2019-04-24T04:46
at 2019-04-24T04:46
By Joe
at 2019-04-24T13:27
at 2019-04-24T13:27
By Daph Bay
at 2019-04-27T11:05
at 2019-04-27T11:05
By Catherine
at 2019-05-01T02:43
at 2019-05-01T02:43
By Cara
at 2019-05-05T23:52
at 2019-05-05T23:52
By Iris
at 2019-05-07T13:50
at 2019-05-07T13:50
By Joseph
at 2019-05-11T16:50
at 2019-05-11T16:50
By Freda
at 2019-05-13T20:46
at 2019-05-13T20:46
By Brianna
at 2019-05-17T20:37
at 2019-05-17T20:37
By Heather
at 2019-05-21T19:30
at 2019-05-21T19:30
By Brianna
at 2019-05-22T05:52
at 2019-05-22T05:52
By Emma
at 2019-05-25T17:48
at 2019-05-25T17:48
By Kelly
at 2019-05-29T06:42
at 2019-05-29T06:42
By Noah
at 2019-05-30T01:39
at 2019-05-30T01:39
By Carolina Franco
at 2019-06-02T12:56
at 2019-06-02T12:56
By Eden
at 2019-06-05T20:41
at 2019-06-05T20:41
By Hedy
at 2019-06-10T14:40
at 2019-06-10T14:40
By Kyle
at 2019-06-12T19:25
at 2019-06-12T19:25
By Agnes
at 2019-06-13T22:22
at 2019-06-13T22:22
By Tracy
at 2019-06-14T04:06
at 2019-06-14T04:06
By Hedy
at 2019-06-18T21:47
at 2019-06-18T21:47
By Dorothy
at 2019-06-20T14:05
at 2019-06-20T14:05
By Andy
at 2019-06-22T15:32
at 2019-06-22T15:32
By Tristan Cohan
at 2019-06-23T04:33
at 2019-06-23T04:33
By Edward Lewis
at 2019-06-24T03:27
at 2019-06-24T03:27
By Genevieve
at 2019-06-27T21:10
at 2019-06-27T21:10
By Madame
at 2019-06-28T23:12
at 2019-06-28T23:12
By Bethany
at 2019-06-30T19:52
at 2019-06-30T19:52
By Rosalind
at 2019-07-02T04:40
at 2019-07-02T04:40
By Hedwig
at 2019-07-03T22:58
at 2019-07-03T22:58
By Olivia
at 2019-07-04T04:33
at 2019-07-04T04:33
By Emily
at 2019-07-06T09:53
at 2019-07-06T09:53
By Carol
at 2019-07-08T16:42
at 2019-07-08T16:42
By Zora
at 2019-07-10T05:35
at 2019-07-10T05:35
By Zora
at 2019-07-14T05:47
at 2019-07-14T05:47
By Edward Lewis
at 2019-07-15T20:21
at 2019-07-15T20:21
By Donna
at 2019-07-20T04:39
at 2019-07-20T04:39
By Selena
at 2019-07-24T21:53
at 2019-07-24T21:53
By Annie
at 2019-07-25T10:08
at 2019-07-25T10:08
By John
at 2019-07-28T04:00
at 2019-07-28T04:00
By Ula
at 2019-08-02T01:57
at 2019-08-02T01:57
By Barb Cronin
at 2019-08-04T22:56
at 2019-08-04T22:56
By Ida
at 2019-08-08T16:48
at 2019-08-08T16:48
By Jessica
at 2019-08-13T08:07
at 2019-08-13T08:07
By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2019-08-17T03:07
at 2019-08-17T03:07
By Charlie
at 2019-08-21T15:14
at 2019-08-21T15:14
By Andrew
at 2019-08-22T20:23
at 2019-08-22T20:23
By Andrew
at 2019-08-27T00:41
at 2019-08-27T00:41
By Xanthe
at 2019-08-31T11:32
at 2019-08-31T11:32
By Valerie
at 2019-09-01T21:38
at 2019-09-01T21:38
By Doris
at 2019-09-04T06:35
at 2019-09-04T06:35
By Hardy
at 2019-09-06T21:56
at 2019-09-06T21:56
By Kyle
at 2019-09-10T15:15
at 2019-09-10T15:15
By Eden
at 2019-09-11T00:09
at 2019-09-11T00:09
By Wallis
at 2019-09-11T19:14
at 2019-09-11T19:14
By Hedwig
at 2019-09-12T20:44
at 2019-09-12T20:44
By Yedda
at 2019-09-15T09:00
at 2019-09-15T09:00
By Megan
at 2019-09-15T12:23
at 2019-09-15T12:23
By Susan
at 2019-09-15T14:07
at 2019-09-15T14:07
By Delia
at 2019-09-19T07:38
at 2019-09-19T07:38
By Daph Bay
at 2019-09-20T07:23
at 2019-09-20T07:23
By Daph Bay
at 2019-09-21T02:50
at 2019-09-21T02:50
By Donna
at 2019-09-22T15:28
at 2019-09-22T15:28
By Olivia
at 2019-09-24T19:10
at 2019-09-24T19:10
By William
at 2019-09-27T10:17
at 2019-09-27T10:17
By Kama
at 2019-09-27T13:43
at 2019-09-27T13:43
By Suhail Hany
at 2019-10-02T03:56
at 2019-10-02T03:56
By Adele
at 2019-10-03T07:39
at 2019-10-03T07:39
By Tom
at 2019-10-04T04:21
at 2019-10-04T04:21
By Annie
at 2019-10-04T13:54
at 2019-10-04T13:54
By Noah
at 2019-10-08T10:02
at 2019-10-08T10:02
By Dorothy
at 2019-10-12T06:23
at 2019-10-12T06:23
By George
at 2019-10-13T13:27
at 2019-10-13T13:27
By Kelly
at 2019-10-14T22:27
at 2019-10-14T22:27
By Ula
at 2019-10-16T00:50
at 2019-10-16T00:50
By Sarah
at 2019-10-16T17:52
at 2019-10-16T17:52
By Megan
at 2019-10-19T19:27
at 2019-10-19T19:27
By Hedy
at 2019-10-20T12:37
at 2019-10-20T12:37
By Adele
at 2019-10-24T19:27
at 2019-10-24T19:27
By Megan
at 2019-10-27T18:44
at 2019-10-27T18:44
By Necoo
at 2019-11-01T12:26
at 2019-11-01T12:26
By Candice
at 2019-11-03T15:45
at 2019-11-03T15:45
By Dorothy
at 2019-11-06T02:31
at 2019-11-06T02:31
By Caitlin
at 2019-11-07T12:28
at 2019-11-07T12:28
By Skylar Davis
at 2019-11-12T09:37
at 2019-11-12T09:37
By Poppy
at 2019-11-15T22:29
at 2019-11-15T22:29
By Xanthe
at 2019-11-18T06:50
at 2019-11-18T06:50
By Frederica
at 2019-11-22T22:21
at 2019-11-22T22:21
By Iris
at 2019-11-27T18:45
at 2019-11-27T18:45
By Ingrid
at 2019-12-02T17:42
at 2019-12-02T17:42
By Agatha
at 2019-12-06T09:52
at 2019-12-06T09:52
By Zenobia
at 2019-12-10T03:21
at 2019-12-10T03:21
By Tristan Cohan
at 2019-12-11T07:01
at 2019-12-11T07:01
By Quintina
at 2019-12-12T14:30
at 2019-12-12T14:30
By Olga
at 2019-12-14T23:04
at 2019-12-14T23:04
By Hedda
at 2019-12-15T09:02
at 2019-12-15T09:02
By Wallis
at 2019-12-19T23:22
at 2019-12-19T23:22
By Connor
at 2019-12-24T11:49
at 2019-12-24T11:49
By Andrew
at 2019-12-27T05:33
at 2019-12-27T05:33
By Adele
at 2019-12-29T22:52
at 2019-12-29T22:52
By Oliver
at 2020-01-03T11:52
at 2020-01-03T11:52
By James
at 2020-01-07T09:31
at 2020-01-07T09:31
By Thomas
at 2020-01-08T09:17
at 2020-01-08T09:17
By Franklin
at 2020-01-10T11:59
at 2020-01-10T11:59
By Zora
at 2020-01-10T23:53
at 2020-01-10T23:53
By Sierra Rose
at 2020-01-12T13:15
at 2020-01-12T13:15
By Gary
at 2020-01-14T08:53
at 2020-01-14T08:53
Related Posts
29歲醫跳6樓亡 母現身控兒遭職場霸凌
By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2019-03-12T20:13
at 2019-03-12T20:13
35歲給2字頭的戰場生存經驗。
By Valerie
at 2019-03-07T15:54
at 2019-03-07T15:54
該如何拉親人一把……
By Franklin
at 2019-03-04T20:54
at 2019-03-04T20:54
35歲給2字頭的戰場生存經驗。
By Kama
at 2019-03-04T09:02
at 2019-03-04T09:02
一個已經無法轉職的補教
By Liam
at 2019-03-01T12:47
at 2019-03-01T12:47