一定要買房嗎? - 老師
By Dorothy
at 2013-11-28T02:04
at 2013-11-28T02:04
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※ 引述《Steinadler (Peace through Tyranny)》之銘言:
: 我沒有說一定要買或不買
: 畢竟每個人的人生規劃是自己的
:
: 如果你有小朋友,也許你會考慮學區戶籍什麼的,就會想買
: 我沒有這問題,即使有,我也不認為學區有多重要
:
: 狼就是狼,不會因為把牠關進狗群裡就變成狗
: 同樣的,狗就是狗,放進狼群裡也只是被撕了當點心
:
: 我兒子是狼,他就算被我這狗老頭養大,照樣可以混進狼群
: 若我兒子是狗,就乖乖待在狗窩,別肖想混進狼群就可以跟著稱霸草原,作夢比較快
老實講環境是真的很重要
除非你能在家庭教育提供極為優良的環境 讓小孩不會被外在同儕影響
不然現實就是狗混到狼群就會變成狼 狼跟狗在一起就變成狗
畢竟人都會有惰性
小弟是前幾屆台北市國中升高中自願就學方案學生
國三要分發的時候有些同學成績好 可以選擇要念建中或師大附中
當時有不少人都被師大附中比較活潑的教學環境 以及男女合校所吸引
想要放棄建中選擇附中
當時老師找這些同學來語重心長地說
他這麼多年見過許許多多建中尾或附中頭的學生
進高中的時候聯考成績差不多
但大學聯考成績念建中的學生平均好上一大截
他又講自己當年國中的時候 還是能力分班時代
學校會根據成績把學生分成升學班與放牛班
當時有一個新來的老師充滿理想 覺得應該混合編班
讓成績好的同學可以帶動成績差的同學一起進步
他想辦法說服校長讓他組成一個"實驗班"
混合各種程度不同的學生一起上課
結果國二一整年下來得到的成果剛好跟想像的相反
整班的成績都是放牛班水準
校長看到這樣覺得不行了
國三又把那些當初成績好的同學編回一般升學班
結果還真的那些人成績又上來了
從此該校再也沒有人搞這種"正常分班" 直到能力分班被廢除為止
所以說除非你能確定自己的孩子是那種同學都在玩
還能自動自發讀書的小孩
不然為了他的未來著想 還是在能力可及的範圍內
給他一個比較有競爭力的環境吧
--
: 我沒有說一定要買或不買
: 畢竟每個人的人生規劃是自己的
:
: 如果你有小朋友,也許你會考慮學區戶籍什麼的,就會想買
: 我沒有這問題,即使有,我也不認為學區有多重要
:
: 狼就是狼,不會因為把牠關進狗群裡就變成狗
: 同樣的,狗就是狗,放進狼群裡也只是被撕了當點心
:
: 我兒子是狼,他就算被我這狗老頭養大,照樣可以混進狼群
: 若我兒子是狗,就乖乖待在狗窩,別肖想混進狼群就可以跟著稱霸草原,作夢比較快
老實講環境是真的很重要
除非你能在家庭教育提供極為優良的環境 讓小孩不會被外在同儕影響
不然現實就是狗混到狼群就會變成狼 狼跟狗在一起就變成狗
畢竟人都會有惰性
小弟是前幾屆台北市國中升高中自願就學方案學生
國三要分發的時候有些同學成績好 可以選擇要念建中或師大附中
當時有不少人都被師大附中比較活潑的教學環境 以及男女合校所吸引
想要放棄建中選擇附中
當時老師找這些同學來語重心長地說
他這麼多年見過許許多多建中尾或附中頭的學生
進高中的時候聯考成績差不多
但大學聯考成績念建中的學生平均好上一大截
他又講自己當年國中的時候 還是能力分班時代
學校會根據成績把學生分成升學班與放牛班
當時有一個新來的老師充滿理想 覺得應該混合編班
讓成績好的同學可以帶動成績差的同學一起進步
他想辦法說服校長讓他組成一個"實驗班"
混合各種程度不同的學生一起上課
結果國二一整年下來得到的成果剛好跟想像的相反
整班的成績都是放牛班水準
校長看到這樣覺得不行了
國三又把那些當初成績好的同學編回一般升學班
結果還真的那些人成績又上來了
從此該校再也沒有人搞這種"正常分班" 直到能力分班被廢除為止
所以說除非你能確定自己的孩子是那種同學都在玩
還能自動自發讀書的小孩
不然為了他的未來著想 還是在能力可及的範圍內
給他一個比較有競爭力的環境吧
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