不想走冤枉路.. - 職涯

By Mason
at 2008-11-25T00:28
at 2008-11-25T00:28
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女生畢業不像男生..還可以當一年兵好好想想要做什麼..
這個月初,姐姐考上了公務員,看來是要跟爸爸一起工作了!
而我,卻還是很惘然..
跟男友討論,他告訴我,我要找到內心中想要的東西!
是家庭或是事業,是成就感還是單純想享受人生..還是要高薪高社會地位!
舅舅是上市公司的副總,舅媽是董事,所以如果要找工作,絕對也不缺..
甚至可以到那邊當個小秘書,因為他們公司很大,應該是那種不太會倒的!
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自己希望能將所長有所發揮!
大學是讀國貿的,如果進親戚公司,剛好也是有所關聯,加上我英文不差..我想是不錯的!
但問題是,如果我想要到核心,就必需要有更棒的學歷!
跟男友討論出來,這個世代已經不是努力就有用了,還要有高學歷!
這樣老闆才看得見!
於是,我勢必得去讀書!
一來卡於金錢,我希望能夠自己替自己準備費用,而不是讓家裡增加負擔!
二來是我大學重考過,所以這樣只會讓自己更老!
最後,由於這間公司目前也都以上海為主了,因此,未來也勢必得外派,離開台灣..
而我男友算是很孝順的,他一定要帶著母親..
所以他想選擇公務員,當然他也可以跟我一起到親戚公司
只不過他也認為要讀書以後再進去,免得被說閒話!
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考公務員,基本上因為家裡剛才有一個考上而已!
姐姐拼了一年半,告訴我一些心得,所以如果我來準備,其實很有把握!
從小我就很拼命唸書的!!!
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人都是貪心的,當然希望自己的時間能夠是CP值最高的應用!
同樣工作八小時,當然希望輕鬆又多金,此外也希望正常上下班放假,多餘時間享受人生!
但是我也了解到,如果我讀書回來,進親戚公司上班,能夠到核心時,就會像我舅舅那樣..
每天忙到昏天黑地..一年除了清明以外就不會回來了..
當公務員,可以正常生活,享受人生,但是物質生活就會有差別了..
==============================================================================
男友算是很上進的人,也希望未來能跟他一起生活!
只是我們又希望有一定的物質生活,又希望能夠有時間享受人生!
想來想去..真的..沒個頭緒!
所以希望版友,能夠幫幫忙,因為我們當局者迷..
旁觀者清!
謝謝!
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這個月初,姐姐考上了公務員,看來是要跟爸爸一起工作了!
而我,卻還是很惘然..
跟男友討論,他告訴我,我要找到內心中想要的東西!
是家庭或是事業,是成就感還是單純想享受人生..還是要高薪高社會地位!
舅舅是上市公司的副總,舅媽是董事,所以如果要找工作,絕對也不缺..
甚至可以到那邊當個小秘書,因為他們公司很大,應該是那種不太會倒的!
=========================================================================
自己希望能將所長有所發揮!
大學是讀國貿的,如果進親戚公司,剛好也是有所關聯,加上我英文不差..我想是不錯的!
但問題是,如果我想要到核心,就必需要有更棒的學歷!
跟男友討論出來,這個世代已經不是努力就有用了,還要有高學歷!
這樣老闆才看得見!
於是,我勢必得去讀書!
一來卡於金錢,我希望能夠自己替自己準備費用,而不是讓家裡增加負擔!
二來是我大學重考過,所以這樣只會讓自己更老!
最後,由於這間公司目前也都以上海為主了,因此,未來也勢必得外派,離開台灣..
而我男友算是很孝順的,他一定要帶著母親..
所以他想選擇公務員,當然他也可以跟我一起到親戚公司
只不過他也認為要讀書以後再進去,免得被說閒話!
==============================================================================
考公務員,基本上因為家裡剛才有一個考上而已!
姐姐拼了一年半,告訴我一些心得,所以如果我來準備,其實很有把握!
從小我就很拼命唸書的!!!
==============================================================================
人都是貪心的,當然希望自己的時間能夠是CP值最高的應用!
同樣工作八小時,當然希望輕鬆又多金,此外也希望正常上下班放假,多餘時間享受人生!
但是我也了解到,如果我讀書回來,進親戚公司上班,能夠到核心時,就會像我舅舅那樣..
每天忙到昏天黑地..一年除了清明以外就不會回來了..
當公務員,可以正常生活,享受人生,但是物質生活就會有差別了..
==============================================================================
男友算是很上進的人,也希望未來能跟他一起生活!
只是我們又希望有一定的物質生活,又希望能夠有時間享受人生!
想來想去..真的..沒個頭緒!
所以希望版友,能夠幫幫忙,因為我們當局者迷..
旁觀者清!
謝謝!
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