個性內向沉默的人在社會上會吃虧嗎? - 職涯
By Ivy
at 2012-08-20T18:47
at 2012-08-20T18:47
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※ 引述《tcbus (女友很像中西里菜)》之銘言:
: 大家覺得在這個社會上
: 個性內向沉默
: 不擅長交際溝通的人
: 真的比較吃虧嗎???
: 很多人說個性外向活潑似乎比較好
: 比較容易融入社會
: 不過人的個性好像很難去改變.....
會爬上領導階級的人多屬外向的人那是當然的
在Trait Theory中,就已經明確定義,『領導才能』是屬於外向性(extraversion)
領導者除了自身能力外,還需具備領袖魅力及溝通協調的能力
內向性的人又何如溝通?又如何協調?
再者,很多人誤以為口才不好、不擅交際就叫內向,其實根本是大錯特錯
那是表達能力太差,而不是個性內向
真的個性內向的人無所爭,他們根本不在乎權力職位
當然,他們也不會有這篇原PO問的這個奇怪問題
表達能力本來就和工作能力同等重要
表達能力差的人當主管,下屬會非常痛苦
因為當下屬的我們不知道你到底要我們做什麼?而我們又該做什麼?
更上層的也不明白,你這個當主管的到底是幹啥來著的?
通常外向性也伴隨著冒險精神、自信心和權力慾
所以理所當然外向的人在工作表現上會較突出
在職場裡升得快的幾乎都是工作能力強且又外向的人
外向≠打嘴炮,內向≠不擅交際
大多數說自己內向的人,都是表達能力很差的人
表達能力通常伴隨著工作上的專業能力
我至今還沒有遇過那種專業很強但卻不擅表達的人(ex:韓非)
每一個遇過讓我佩服的人都是本身很有能力而且又有大將之風的
表達能力很差,通常都是專業不行所導致
專業不強→沒有自信→被一問就倒→被上頭定義為庸才甚至是廢柴,升遷當然沒份
能力夠強,能完成每次交辦的難題,上面要不看到你也難
你不是內向,你是專業不夠
--
下手糞の上級者への道のりは己が下手さを知りて一歩目。
--
: 大家覺得在這個社會上
: 個性內向沉默
: 不擅長交際溝通的人
: 真的比較吃虧嗎???
: 很多人說個性外向活潑似乎比較好
: 比較容易融入社會
: 不過人的個性好像很難去改變.....
會爬上領導階級的人多屬外向的人那是當然的
在Trait Theory中,就已經明確定義,『領導才能』是屬於外向性(extraversion)
領導者除了自身能力外,還需具備領袖魅力及溝通協調的能力
內向性的人又何如溝通?又如何協調?
再者,很多人誤以為口才不好、不擅交際就叫內向,其實根本是大錯特錯
那是表達能力太差,而不是個性內向
真的個性內向的人無所爭,他們根本不在乎權力職位
當然,他們也不會有這篇原PO問的這個奇怪問題
表達能力本來就和工作能力同等重要
表達能力差的人當主管,下屬會非常痛苦
因為當下屬的我們不知道你到底要我們做什麼?而我們又該做什麼?
更上層的也不明白,你這個當主管的到底是幹啥來著的?
通常外向性也伴隨著冒險精神、自信心和權力慾
所以理所當然外向的人在工作表現上會較突出
在職場裡升得快的幾乎都是工作能力強且又外向的人
外向≠打嘴炮,內向≠不擅交際
大多數說自己內向的人,都是表達能力很差的人
表達能力通常伴隨著工作上的專業能力
我至今還沒有遇過那種專業很強但卻不擅表達的人(ex:韓非)
每一個遇過讓我佩服的人都是本身很有能力而且又有大將之風的
表達能力很差,通常都是專業不行所導致
專業不強→沒有自信→被一問就倒→被上頭定義為庸才甚至是廢柴,升遷當然沒份
能力夠強,能完成每次交辦的難題,上面要不看到你也難
你不是內向,你是專業不夠
--
下手糞の上級者への道のりは己が下手さを知りて一歩目。
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