同事令人不舒服的舉動如何處理才好 - 職場

By Lauren
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6/26 晚上更新
結論:以太陽直射為由,成功請主管幫我換座位
非常感謝版友們所提出的意見
我會謹記建言並虛心接受指教的!!
謝謝大家 ((鞠躬
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6/26 中午更新
給部分版友帶來不好的感受請先讓我說聲不好意思
前2週以10個工作天來算,除了第1天我帶他了解公司環境,第2天我出差外
剩下8天都是過著只要他經過我座位前,就會被轉頭瞄一下的日子TTTT
人在江湖走,多加小心注意總是必要的對吧TT
也許我的處理方式不算妥當(用手機錄影),但這是我唯一想出能夠自保的方法
總比到時候萬一真的發生什麼問題,才為無憑無據來煩惱的好
會PO這篇文也是因為已經近兩周不斷經歷相同的事情,覺得無助才會上來尋求建議
真心感謝每位給予建議與指教的版友 m(_ _)m
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先附上簡易座位圖,座位為有隔牆的辦公桌,均面向走道
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走 道
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║ A ║ B ║│ │║ 我 ║
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新同事A在兩週前到職
任職第三天就發現他經過我座位前都會稍微把頭轉過來看一下又馬上撇開
本來以為他可能是有事情不清楚想要詢問,問他卻又說沒有
上週問了同事B,他說沒注意到A在經過他座位前會不會轉頭看他
但是如果他動作大一點,譬如伸懶腰或是開抽屜,A都會轉過來看他一眼
私下找朋友訴苦時有建議我錄影,如果之後真的要呈報主管處理才有證據
一錄才確定A真的幾乎每次經過都會轉過來瞄一下
更誇張的是午休我趴睡時,根本不避諱的邊走邊往我座位裡面盯著看.....
對他這樣的舉動講好聽是不舒服,講難聽點已經是噁心了
現在只要他一離開座位我就覺得神經緊繃,晚上想到隔天要上班就超級焦慮
而大後天開始我主管得出差半個月,頓時覺得失去依靠 QQ
(我與我主管是辦公室唯二的女性)
想請問版友這樣的情況建議直接跟A溝通嗎?
還是趁這兩天先告知主管,請她幫忙協調比較好呢?
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By James
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By Selena
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By Madame
at 2017-07-03T02:42
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對你,不用到錄影蒐證跟主管報告吧

By Skylar Davis
at 2017-07-05T17:32
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By Kumar
at 2017-07-06T05:22
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講不聽再找主管。
你先找主管以後溝通相處會出問題。

By Madame
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By Zora
at 2017-07-07T18:39
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何?

By Hamiltion
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By Adele
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By Isla
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能會比較收斂

By Candice
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好基啊

By Freda
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By Jack
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By Emma
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By Ida
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By Oliver
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By Candice
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By Suhail Hany
at 2017-08-13T02:03
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也可能你桌上有放什麼他感興趣的東西

By Todd Johnson
at 2017-08-15T03:05
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,因為我覺得反正沒傷到我,看就看啊。

By Yuri
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By Harry
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By Jessica
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By Sandy
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By Rachel
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By Irma
at 2017-08-30T07:52
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有可能他真的沒有要看你 只是眼睛長的比較歪 誰知道呢 XD

By Jacob
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By Cara
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By Andrew
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By Jake
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By Rae
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By Damian
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By Ethan
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By Annie
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By Joe
at 2017-09-24T00:59
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後錄音。如果他依然不改或有更過分舉動,就舉報他性騷擾
。

By Mason
at 2017-09-24T04:38
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By Zora
at 2017-09-24T13:02
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擾,但對方應該是沒有安全感的人,所以會特別想知道同
事在幹嘛,我遇到的同事,本身工作能力不好,主管也警
告過,也花了很久的時間,才讓同事不往我這邊看,這種
相處上的尊重,有些人真的不懂,只是要明講也非常困難
就是了!

By Bennie
at 2017-09-25T19:40
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為情。 試試看有無改善

By Leila
at 2017-09-30T10:31
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By Cara
at 2017-10-02T19:29
at 2017-10-02T19:29
你現在令男版友也不舒服啊

By Genevieve
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By Mia
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By Kama
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By Una
at 2017-10-16T08:40
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招呼 讓對方知道你認得他 以後可以指認他 同時一般會

By Skylar Davis
at 2017-10-16T15:49
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較不會覺得你瞧不起他而對你下手 你何不以前輩的身份主

By Jacob
at 2017-10-21T02:19
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By Isla
at 2017-10-21T14:22
at 2017-10-21T14:22
然後什麼事都不做 只會裝攝影機用不光明的手段偷錄別人

By Yuri
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By Mia
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By Adele
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By Tracy
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哪天你莫明突然尖叫的話 我看他跳到長江都洗不清了

By Emma
at 2017-11-05T20:27
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By Oscar
at 2017-11-07T21:54
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了,感覺違法的人是妳哦!

By Carolina Franco
at 2017-11-11T11:43
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圍的人,但其實我視線根本沒對焦,只是習慣大略晃一下

By Christine
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By Kumar
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By Irma
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班後在報告處理情況,謝謝大家 m(_ _)m

By Olivia
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By Eartha
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By Poppy
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By Christine
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By Ursula
at 2017-12-14T19:14
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之後聊天的話題就被當變態...

By George
at 2017-12-15T16:47
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這男同事趕快逃阿 都快被你衝康了

By Zanna
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By William
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By Hamiltion
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By Rosalind
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By Necoo
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By Barb Cronin
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By Dorothy
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By Freda
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,成天在意不完。感覺很精神緊張。看就看啊。

By Annie
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By Harry
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By Liam
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幫肥宅QQ

By Lydia
at 2018-01-16T19:30
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無視就好。

By Frederica
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By Belly
at 2018-01-23T00:57
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By Yedda
at 2018-01-27T20:58
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眼 你當成人家緊盯你

By Ivy
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By Franklin
at 2018-02-06T01:23
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我是連續被困擾長達快二個月,才開始採用比較明確的方
式,讓同事學會尊重,妳還是先不要再偷拍吧…

By Vanessa
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By Bennie
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By Jack
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By Ophelia
at 2018-02-12T13:42
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去人家反咬你上班常常不專心,他是用這種方式督促你上班
專心,那你又該如何自處?而且你錄影如果只有拍到他轉頭
而沒有其他言語或進一步動作......你有很高的機率被說是
鑲金的。

By Jake
at 2018-02-12T16:09
at 2018-02-12T16:09
,我講白一點,我覺得妳很盧小。

By Elvira
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By Zora
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By Irma
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By Emily
at 2018-02-20T09:16
at 2018-02-20T09:16
這種就比較討厭@ @,但新人不太可能這樣

By Kama
at 2018-02-23T18:14
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想跟你聊天但又不知道說什麼,才會這樣
你可以注意看看他除了你以外,是否沒有其他比較熟的人

By Faithe
at 2018-02-27T17:40
at 2018-02-27T17:40
但可能他的外表(?)讓你不喜歡,你就覺得噁心了
從文中看來是這樣,我認為他應該是沒什麼惡意

By Elvira
at 2018-02-27T19:42
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By Ingrid
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By Sierra Rose
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By Frederic
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By Agatha
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By William
at 2018-03-13T04:59
at 2018-03-13T04:59
壓抑他的性衝動啊。。真的要開始吃的時候再說吧

By Susan
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By Sandy
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By Erin
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By Necoo
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By Emma
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By Catherine
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By Megan
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By Quanna
at 2018-04-01T18:53
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實在想不出他看妳帶有什麼騷擾成分

By Xanthe
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By Robert
at 2018-04-02T09:55
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By Lauren
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By Yuri
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By Odelette
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By Joseph
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By Cara
at 2018-04-19T10:26
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By Madame
at 2018-04-23T22:15
at 2018-04-23T22:15
會怕。用錄影自保很聰明,總不能等被侵害了才想辦法,
不懂為什麼要譴責一個想保護自己的女性。她也沒做出不
利A的事。人覺得不安時就應該尋求協助或解決辦法而不
是當作沒事沒感覺
按到噓,不好意思><

By Zora
at 2018-04-26T12:28
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By Leila
at 2018-05-01T05:17
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By Bethany
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