家境不好想翻身要慎選科系 - 職涯
By Regina
at 2018-03-07T23:44
at 2018-03-07T23:44
Table of Contents
大家好
小弟目前研究所 即將畢業
常逛本版想分享一下自身經歷
適合家境不好
資質普通
不能失敗 走穩路
想領好一點薪資 讓家裡翻身的人看
先講結論(就我觀察周遭的朋友):
一類組:法商
二類組:電資
三類組:醫牙藥
正文:
家庭狀況:
父母離異
爸爸領有重度精神殘障手冊 (我出生前就有)
家中無存款 爸媽無養老金
媽媽目前僅有養自己的收入
弟弟不擅讀書 高中畢業簽下去
有一棟從小住到大的老房子
成長背景:
高中前家裡還算正常
爸媽在傳統市場當菜販 略窮但生活還過得去
大三上開始家裡沒經濟收入+父母離異
開始摸摸鼻子打點零工(家教,補習班)
偶爾跟阿公或弟弟借生活費(目前欠25萬)
過慣正常人生活
偶爾也想娛樂開銷(唱歌,吃飯)
衣服跟親戚撿
沒特別省但一個月壓在7000左右
上研究所後 開始有薪水領
自身經歷:
目前25y
地方高中
私大電資
116電資(轉學)
113電資研
目前研替:一線IC設計RD (年薪破百+分紅)
小時候家裡還算過得去但是略窮
而且爸爸有精神病
常常被市場客人還有親戚念說要好好讀書
長大才能讓家裡翻身
不過小時候都懵懵懂懂照做
為了讀書放棄很多東西 也只會讀書
但一直相信讀書是我唯一的出路
大學沒有考很好 非常失落
後來休學轉學考 降了一級
到好大學也沒念的很好
甚至是念的有點痛苦(成績不好跟不上)
但想到家裡的處境就覺得
咬著牙也是要把他念完
到畢業時覺得自己太爛 找不到好工作
決定給自己再一次機會念研
要解決我家的困境 其實就是要靠錢
很慶幸念的是電資
其實高中根本不知道 外面的產業如何
都是從高分填到低分
但真的運氣很好 就是上了電資
要是照我的興趣填 現在應該......
電資真的薪水還可以
也足夠改變我家的困境
有時候覺得累的時候 就想想家裡的情況
就會有動力繼續往前了
雖然以前為了讀書
放棄了很多東西和興趣
家裡的情形導致我個性自卑
但目前有份不錯的工作
讓我更有自信
因為我知道我有多的經濟能力
可以拾回那些我放棄的過去
而目前人生對我來說才是真正的開始
分享到這裡 謝謝大家撥冗
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