對於未來感到茫然 - 職涯
By Joe
at 2018-05-16T19:18
at 2018-05-16T19:18
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本魯今年25歲,私立文組畢業後有感於工作難尋,義務役入伍後變直接轉職志願役,當到現在也三年了,下個月就升中士了,接下來沒意外的話也可以很穩定的往上爬。
我的情況是這樣的,我屬於高司單位是上下班屬性的,剛好家裡也在附近,所以平常事情做完後便是穩定的上下班生活,生活略嫌枯燥但也還算穩定,薪水比起同期的同學來說是稍高一些,而且單位風氣比起其他地方來說也好很多,大家都是好來好去,豬頭長官也還是有但畢竟是少數,整體來說我對於現在的生活很滿意。
只是有時候還是會對自己身分感到自卑,不單單是因為現今軍人的社會地位偏低,因為周遭的朋友都是師字輩起跳,碩士也都一把抓,加上家人會若有似無的拿我弟跟我比較(他走裝潢,去年已經買了房子,今年自己開了工作室,是很成功的年輕人),所以我總是感到壓力,不管是外界的還是自身給與的。
而我原先的計畫是這樣的,兩年後退伍就用那存到的一筆錢來唸研究所或去補習當全職考生拼高考,至少不想讓家裡的人看不起。
如果失敗後可能就是出國發展,我個人偏向去東南亞發展。
留在軍中的有點很明顯,就是穩定,缺點也同樣的明顯,就是太穩定了,穩定到接下來20年都可以輕易的算出來,我原本是不甘於安穩的人,只是最近遇到了人生中最大的挫折,這挫折讓我一度站不起來...
原先我想向家人證明自己,在研究了一番股市後踏入了股市的行列,一開始也是有小賺,可是就在一個月前因為個人操作不當及未設停損點,導致我連同本金一併吐了回去,這教訓讓我幾乎一蹶不振,除了這三年的積蓄化為烏有,也連帶著警惕我...
我已經沒有本錢再失敗了!
於是我黯然退出股市
而接下來反倒是對未來的茫然,我不知道是就此承認自己的能耐就這樣而已,就定下來安穩的過完一輩子,畢竟現在這份工作真的沒有任何可以挑剔的,還是兩年後拿著不多的積蓄再挑戰一次,畢竟我覺得我人生活到現在真的有那麼一點失敗...
兩年後我也27歲了,說實在年紀也不小了,人生可沒有那麼多青春可供揮霍,所以我感到非常的茫然...
感謝大家花時間看完了這些,上來發文無非是對人生感到困惑及茫然,想集結大家的意見來參考,畢竟也還有兩年...
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