已經35歲了還穩定不下來 - 職涯
By Quanna
at 2021-11-19T16:40
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標題其實是指我跟我老公兩人都是
老公在美國唸文科博士,已經唸了五年中途還休學回台灣工作過,又不死心回去唸,但現
在連畢業的蹤影還看不到,常常會跟我說他不知道論文題目該朝那個方向才好
我在台灣工作幾年,都在科技大廠,但為了圓他的博士夢我辭職跟他來美國,因為不想要
就此斷了職業生涯就申請了個碩士(也很怕老公沒辦法負擔家計,家裡總是要有人賺錢)
目前我準備畢業了但在美國工作找的不順利,也沒有那麼喜歡美國的環境(雖然大家都說
美國好,但生活其實很競爭壓力很大,治安不好,物價很高,醫療極貴,生活又不方便)
,所以就萌生乾脆回台灣工作的念頭,還有以前的人脈應該不至於找不到工作(大概…)
但問題就是老公這邊,他研究做的很慢,目前都還沒有發表paper,雖然課都修完了在哪
都可以做研究,但我實在很焦慮他如果回台一天到晚沒工作在家,也沒辦法專心做研究(
畢竟資源都在美國),而且我看他這種狀況也沒辦法在台灣找到教職…(學校不有名又發
不出paper)
說真的我沒有把握可以再為了他第三次放棄我的職涯,雖然我也很想努力在美國找工作但
是這段在美國生活的時間我們兩個都壓力很大,基本上應該兩人都有憂鬱症,都覺得自己
沒有能力沒有價值,也完全沒有愛好的事情也不知道自己想做什麼
但回台灣對我老公來說也是個死路,都35歲了沒什麼工作經驗,又是文科,到底能找什麼
工作?我也沒好到哪裡,到現在也搞成不上不下,也不知道是不是真的能找到工作
我真的很累了,自從結婚後就直接到新環境生活,沒有蜜月,家裡家具永遠是最便宜的ik
ea家具或是撿別人不要的桌椅,吃東西永遠只能選最便宜的,美國外食貴也永遠是自己煮
,生活沒有任何情趣樂趣永遠都是待在家裡忙於研究工作,基本上到美國也都沒什麼朋友
了,這一年來也有很嚴重的睡眠障礙
我覺得我們好像被什麼詛咒陷住了
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老公在美國唸文科博士,已經唸了五年中途還休學回台灣工作過,又不死心回去唸,但現
在連畢業的蹤影還看不到,常常會跟我說他不知道論文題目該朝那個方向才好
我在台灣工作幾年,都在科技大廠,但為了圓他的博士夢我辭職跟他來美國,因為不想要
就此斷了職業生涯就申請了個碩士(也很怕老公沒辦法負擔家計,家裡總是要有人賺錢)
目前我準備畢業了但在美國工作找的不順利,也沒有那麼喜歡美國的環境(雖然大家都說
美國好,但生活其實很競爭壓力很大,治安不好,物價很高,醫療極貴,生活又不方便)
,所以就萌生乾脆回台灣工作的念頭,還有以前的人脈應該不至於找不到工作(大概…)
但問題就是老公這邊,他研究做的很慢,目前都還沒有發表paper,雖然課都修完了在哪
都可以做研究,但我實在很焦慮他如果回台一天到晚沒工作在家,也沒辦法專心做研究(
畢竟資源都在美國),而且我看他這種狀況也沒辦法在台灣找到教職…(學校不有名又發
不出paper)
說真的我沒有把握可以再為了他第三次放棄我的職涯,雖然我也很想努力在美國找工作但
是這段在美國生活的時間我們兩個都壓力很大,基本上應該兩人都有憂鬱症,都覺得自己
沒有能力沒有價值,也完全沒有愛好的事情也不知道自己想做什麼
但回台灣對我老公來說也是個死路,都35歲了沒什麼工作經驗,又是文科,到底能找什麼
工作?我也沒好到哪裡,到現在也搞成不上不下,也不知道是不是真的能找到工作
我真的很累了,自從結婚後就直接到新環境生活,沒有蜜月,家裡家具永遠是最便宜的ik
ea家具或是撿別人不要的桌椅,吃東西永遠只能選最便宜的,美國外食貴也永遠是自己煮
,生活沒有任何情趣樂趣永遠都是待在家裡忙於研究工作,基本上到美國也都沒什麼朋友
了,這一年來也有很嚴重的睡眠障礙
我覺得我們好像被什麼詛咒陷住了
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