快40歲的人生不知該如何-或需心理諮商? - 業務

By Elvira
at 2019-09-08T20:44
at 2019-09-08T20:44
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已婚,有一女,房貸6xx,存款1xx(老婆大概200-300)
在一家公司呆了快九年
但除了第一年,剩下幾年都很累(FAE->業務工作)
出差海外,外地是家常便飯
業務上雖有進展,但也有天不從人願的大失血,好難補
做到沒力,很想走(或是被請走)
人生蠻空的,不知道走了以後能幹嘛?
從小被父母填鴨式安排,逼自己唸書,連寒輔同學找去操場打球我還是乖乖在教室
上大學父母不管,結果就念比較久了,加上研究所念的比醫學系還久
還好都是名校,工作是比較多選擇,但眼高手低,不想被操就不去TSMC與電子業(去過3個月)
個性反骨,但又習於從小的環境不敢大改變
是個媽寶,身上揹著父母的期待
不知道人生走到一半該怎麼辦?
剛跟老婆聊(好幾年沒敞開心房聊天了)
我或許需要心理諮詢
總是覺得,好學歷應該做的很好,高中大學同學不少當教授、念醫或是從事各行各業混的
不錯的
但我卻在十字路口
家庭關係普普
父母還在跟親戚的財產官司紛擾好幾年了
老婆家庭比較冷(台北人原因),但家庭關係不錯
我妹妹算是很自主,成就不錯,但也是要顧小孩蠟燭兩頭燒
時常很羨慕大家族聚會,我跟我爸媽妹妹家庭大概一年1-2次,而且很冷
我老婆那邊一年一次都沒有
若要說什麼好的
就是自己跟家裡有一些先人留下的祖產
現金千萬跟土地
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好像很多,但其實內心超空虛,ptt發廢文,youtube看無聊的政論跟電影
覺得一事無成,最後吃老本,很像媽寶
母親一直希望我能做出一番事業,若真創業需要錢她有
但從小到大背負著雙親的期待,希望給親戚好看
總是覺得以前的同學不少成就不錯(當然也有普的)
很想做些改變,卻不知該怎麼下手
有推薦的心理諮詢嗎?
或有什麼建議?
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