戴勝益 月薪不到四萬別儲蓄 不給孝親費 - 職場
By Margaret
at 2012-04-12T18:16
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今天聽了戴勝益的演講
他說 如果月薪不到四萬塊 不要去儲蓄 存錢的就是笨蛋
也不要給孝親費
父母在小孩的求學過程中毫不吝嗇的投資 像是去補習或是學才藝
但是在一出社會後 不但沒有推小孩一把 還把小孩拉進來
所以給孝親費的話是愚孝
我知道他的意思是因為這些錢是要用來增加自己的人際關係 社交能力
一個月的費用大概就要七八千塊
並舉了一些例子像是同事間有人生了小孩 大家要約去看小孩
或是同事說要去吃下午茶等等
結果因為自己要給孝親費而必須省錢 就得想出各種理由拒絕
這樣好不容易別人給你搭了座橋 但是你卻把那條橋切斷了
以後別人就不會再找你
如果人際關係打好的話 以後有好的工作機會別人也會跟你報好康
還說月薪不到四萬 要叫爸媽再多給錢
我不知道這句話是不是誇大了
可是就一般傳統觀念來說 出社會後是要給家裡孝親費的
像我爸就說 以後出去工作要給三分之一給家裡
我爸也跟我提過 親戚中有人都不給父母孝親費
長輩們雖然不缺錢 但是心裡都會打個分數
雖然我知道戴勝益的意思是要把錢投資在自己以及人脈身上
可是怎麼想都不可能不給孝親費 何況是再跟爸媽要錢
不知道各位是怎麼想的呢?
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他說 如果月薪不到四萬塊 不要去儲蓄 存錢的就是笨蛋
也不要給孝親費
父母在小孩的求學過程中毫不吝嗇的投資 像是去補習或是學才藝
但是在一出社會後 不但沒有推小孩一把 還把小孩拉進來
所以給孝親費的話是愚孝
我知道他的意思是因為這些錢是要用來增加自己的人際關係 社交能力
一個月的費用大概就要七八千塊
並舉了一些例子像是同事間有人生了小孩 大家要約去看小孩
或是同事說要去吃下午茶等等
結果因為自己要給孝親費而必須省錢 就得想出各種理由拒絕
這樣好不容易別人給你搭了座橋 但是你卻把那條橋切斷了
以後別人就不會再找你
如果人際關係打好的話 以後有好的工作機會別人也會跟你報好康
還說月薪不到四萬 要叫爸媽再多給錢
我不知道這句話是不是誇大了
可是就一般傳統觀念來說 出社會後是要給家裡孝親費的
像我爸就說 以後出去工作要給三分之一給家裡
我爸也跟我提過 親戚中有人都不給父母孝親費
長輩們雖然不缺錢 但是心裡都會打個分數
雖然我知道戴勝益的意思是要把錢投資在自己以及人脈身上
可是怎麼想都不可能不給孝親費 何況是再跟爸媽要錢
不知道各位是怎麼想的呢?
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