救救我男友 - 職涯
By Valerie
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不好意思不太確定該PO哪個版
但PO BG版應該會一堆人要我分手
文長含抱怨
我男友76年次 今年25歲
4年前傻傻的被騙簽了志願役 今年5月20號退伍
我們是今年3月在一起的 其實我們認識好幾年了但今年才交往
退伍後他執意搬上來台北和我一起同居
(P.S.我們都是台南人以前都在同一間服飾店上班 我已經在台北約3年
他在那間店是蠻受老闆重用的店員 老闆也希望他退伍之後回那邊上班
但那個老闆脾氣不穩定所以我男友還是選擇離開那邊)
認識他的人全部都知道他是一個用錢完全不克制的人
喜歡什麼買什麼(他興趣很多 從漫畫公仔DVD服裝配件3C產品都是)
家人朋友要用錢二話不說就借出去
他是一個好人但就是沒什麼腦
當兵4年期間還曾被同一間詐騙每月騙錢4年下來前後有20萬(又是另一個故事了)
當兵時月領三萬年終約領8 9萬但他都沒有存款
退伍金領了20萬 結果5月退的伍 7月中就花完
他有給部分家用 其他都在吃喝玩樂
錢快花完我完全不知情 退伍前我就給他很多理財觀念我以為他都聽進去了
本來還跟他說這筆錢一定要存 然後去學一些專業技能
結果發生這件事我整個超級傻眼(當然什麼都沒去學)
而且他還沒有開始找工作
對於要做的事都是支支吾吾 說再看看
當時我也剛離開那時的工作想換跑道專心賺錢存錢(原本的工作是助理類的薪水很少)
然後每天我在求職網查工作機會 (7月底我已找到工作)
他倒是很樂觀的看不出有任何一點壓力
每天說要找工作也只是散步去東區看看有沒有店家貼徵人
看完再回家考慮一兩天 再去投履歷
(我有幫他辦1X4&1XX1的線上履歷但都是我幫他投)
就這樣到了現在9月快一半了
他還是沒找到工作!
(中間有因為真的很缺錢所以去附近網咖工作 結果那是一間超黑的店
薪水超級低又一堆不合理的規定 他做沒幾天就離職了)
他其實是個蠻聽話的人 但真的做事太不積極
也看不出有任何人生規劃
現在身上沒錢他也甘願窩在家整天上網吃白飯配罐頭也不去做有意義的事
每次想跟他溝通最後都變成只有我在說他很安靜的在聽也看不出他在想什麼
喔對了他現在會找一些比較基層的工作(還有大夜也會看)
但他身上有刺青穿洞所以部分店家不考慮用他
只是他到現在找工作都還是出門瞎晃有看到有店家徵人再說
怎麼會有人完全不懂"規畫"兩個字啊!!(很多我能幫的都幫了 但我現在新工作壓力頗大
沒有那麼多時間替他擔心)
無敵浪費時間 但我又不想發脾氣
各位身邊有這樣的人嗎?
他還有救嗎?
我該怎樣幫他?
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但PO BG版應該會一堆人要我分手
文長含抱怨
我男友76年次 今年25歲
4年前傻傻的被騙簽了志願役 今年5月20號退伍
我們是今年3月在一起的 其實我們認識好幾年了但今年才交往
退伍後他執意搬上來台北和我一起同居
(P.S.我們都是台南人以前都在同一間服飾店上班 我已經在台北約3年
他在那間店是蠻受老闆重用的店員 老闆也希望他退伍之後回那邊上班
但那個老闆脾氣不穩定所以我男友還是選擇離開那邊)
認識他的人全部都知道他是一個用錢完全不克制的人
喜歡什麼買什麼(他興趣很多 從漫畫公仔DVD服裝配件3C產品都是)
家人朋友要用錢二話不說就借出去
他是一個好人但就是沒什麼腦
當兵4年期間還曾被同一間詐騙每月騙錢4年下來前後有20萬(又是另一個故事了)
當兵時月領三萬年終約領8 9萬但他都沒有存款
退伍金領了20萬 結果5月退的伍 7月中就花完
他有給部分家用 其他都在吃喝玩樂
錢快花完我完全不知情 退伍前我就給他很多理財觀念我以為他都聽進去了
本來還跟他說這筆錢一定要存 然後去學一些專業技能
結果發生這件事我整個超級傻眼(當然什麼都沒去學)
而且他還沒有開始找工作
對於要做的事都是支支吾吾 說再看看
當時我也剛離開那時的工作想換跑道專心賺錢存錢(原本的工作是助理類的薪水很少)
然後每天我在求職網查工作機會 (7月底我已找到工作)
他倒是很樂觀的看不出有任何一點壓力
每天說要找工作也只是散步去東區看看有沒有店家貼徵人
看完再回家考慮一兩天 再去投履歷
(我有幫他辦1X4&1XX1的線上履歷但都是我幫他投)
就這樣到了現在9月快一半了
他還是沒找到工作!
(中間有因為真的很缺錢所以去附近網咖工作 結果那是一間超黑的店
薪水超級低又一堆不合理的規定 他做沒幾天就離職了)
他其實是個蠻聽話的人 但真的做事太不積極
也看不出有任何人生規劃
現在身上沒錢他也甘願窩在家整天上網吃白飯配罐頭也不去做有意義的事
每次想跟他溝通最後都變成只有我在說他很安靜的在聽也看不出他在想什麼
喔對了他現在會找一些比較基層的工作(還有大夜也會看)
但他身上有刺青穿洞所以部分店家不考慮用他
只是他到現在找工作都還是出門瞎晃有看到有店家徵人再說
怎麼會有人完全不懂"規畫"兩個字啊!!(很多我能幫的都幫了 但我現在新工作壓力頗大
沒有那麼多時間替他擔心)
無敵浪費時間 但我又不想發脾氣
各位身邊有這樣的人嗎?
他還有救嗎?
我該怎樣幫他?
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