有人提到社會現實面的問題 - 醫生
By Necoo
at 2018-05-31T22:28
at 2018-05-31T22:28
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社會現實面也跟生涯規劃有很大的關係。
因為別人有,你卻沒有,你就沒法和別人一樣走相同的路。
我常講選工作得考慮產業熱門度、天賦,
但其實家境也是限制了很多人的發展,
這也是常常看到圖書館可以看到有些人其實聰明度不錯,
就只能夠選擇高普考作為自已這輩子的主要事業,
若爸媽能留個什麼店或是公司可以繼承的話,
就不必辛苦地在那裡蹲。
家境決定一個人的一生的7、8成以上,這是不容否認的事實。
家境是什麼?父母留下的有形財富,可能介紹工作給你的人脈,
他們若有從事高階工作時所累積的視野,
聰明才智,應對進退、漂亮臉蛋等等決定了你人生成敗的所有因素,
都可以包括在家境的一部分,而非只有錢而已。
錢可以揮霍掉,但是那些無形的資源可以再生更多錢。
而社會上也許是萬分之1的人可以大幅度地突破家境的障礙,
來創業成功,如郭台銘或是對岸的馬雲,
都是極少數的特例,
大部分的人只能夠去當他們的員工啦!
或是中了樂透,或是嫁娶有錢人也可以大幅度改變自身的命運,
這兩路路機率也是很低,
但是給了很多人無窮的希望。
很多聰明人早在高中時代就認清了現實,
不會去簽什麼樂透、或是很愛看八卦雜誌,
幻想自已能不能嫁給富X代。
大家都得很努力地讀書,靠知識的力量從0累積起自已的財富。
(我說大家就是幾乎全部的意思,已經把上面的特例捨棄掉了。)
以上就是我體會到的聰明人如遷就這個社會現實的方法。
為何我的文章會受到某部分的人歡迎,
其實就是人生的閱歷造成我們都有共通的感覺。
看到有些年輕人在做不切實際的美夢,
就開始碎碎唸,
當然也會引起愛逐夢者的反彈。
問題是杜蘭久了,1年、5年、10年,等你35歲以後再來看,
你又將變成了我們成員的其中之一。
噓一篇文章容易而改變自已的際遇,難。
你可以動手去噓一篇文,但是你無法去噓你每天起床後
一睜開眼就得面對的那個社會現實。
人可以被噓,但是社會現實又沒有人格。
整個社會說穿了就是好的資源有限,而很多人要去爭搶,
有的人一看到資源兩個字就只會聯想到錢而已,
他們沒法想到其它東西,
諸如好的外貌,
甚至身高都是罕見資源,
帥美的男人女人是罕見資源,
好的文化素養家庭教育也是罕見資源,
好的人脈也是罕見資源,
一個人的一生說穿了就是在爭搶這些東西,
能到這個板或多或少有能力掙這些東西,
但是也有一群人是一出生就註定連最基本的爭搶能力都沒有。
如果有能力,誰都會晚上10點這個時段從事自已想做的事,
看電視、上網或是剛參加宴會甚至出國旅遊回來,
如果有能力的話,有誰會主動在這時侯在超商、全聯那裡站呢?
就是沒有辦法,就是社會現實。
他們的一生最多就只能夠這樣子了,
於是開始妄想,
所以會迷樂透,研究數字學,
或是在麥當勞遇到要發票的老頭,
都是幻想能夠一朝致富的例子。
他們如果有機會換一個建北資優生或是柯文哲、唐鳳的腦袋,
當了醫生或是進了高科技知名企業之後哪裡還需要再愁些什麼。
貧富差距充其量只是結果,也就是表象,
而真正的內涵就是實力高低問題而已。
最近觀察在馬路上大哥哥大姊姊一包50元賣餅乾的生意不好,
社福機構的捐款這些年來一直減少,難道一般人沒有察覺嗎?
因為正常人自已都過不好了,
哪有多餘的閒錢再分給那些人,
這就是社會現實,已經不是1990年代股市上萬點時的台灣了,
經濟走下坡了,
所以這年代的生涯規劃
不是保守選理工就是得走出去。
然而無可奈何又不是只有你們,
每個世代都有他們的難處得面對。
只是形態不一樣而已,
前幾代是經濟剛發展,資源不足,
阿扁一件制服只能當天洗、當天曬乾,
我那年代的建中生的媽媽,
就是在菜市場縫衣服的,
而這世代所要面對的難題是能力不足的人只能夠領低薪,
能力強的雖然有高薪,但得用命、自由去換,
為何會這樣子?
還不是資源有限而人口太多造成的嗎?
強的人起點高,當醫師,
但是老人選票壓力,所以只能夠領少少的健保給付,
於是有些人開始怠工,除非自已能夠賺自付項目。
弱的人,因為好的工作被搶走了,
所以只能夠從事低階被取代性高的服務業,
我不講製造業,因為2級產業的工作會越來越少。
雖然說台灣的大學一大堆,
但是大家從校名推也知道是怎麼一回事,
所以有數百萬的低薪族。
當初這些人的父母別生那麼多,甚至不生,
就沒有這些辛苦人。
可是後果已經出來了,大家就得勇於面對。
2014年的太陽花和16年的政黨輪替反映了一堆人的不滿,
然而時間過去了,
我們發現好像沒法從政治面去解決,
因為哪個政黨上台之後,並沒有保證一定替你加薪的政見,
那些人只能夠用財政或是金融手段來刺激經濟,
然而我們又發現了GDP實質有成長,
但是薪水卻又倒退到2千年左右,
這說明企業家口袋賺飽飽了卻不願意加薪,
這和勞工運動不成熟或是民族性就是一盤散沙不團結,
或是這些低薪勞動者本身就是能力不足,
只能夠從事被取代性高的工作而被老板們吃得死死的有關吧!
我知道這些現象,卻也無能為力地看著。
位卑言輕無法阻止災難不斷地惡化,
唯一能做的就是在這板喚醒一堆人而已。
我們就是被困在這個牢籠裡走不出去。
2018年又過了一半了。
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