正常順利的人生成長曲線應該是長怎麼樣? - 職涯
By Franklin
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最近在網路上遇到一個人生順遂的同年齡故友(36歲),打屁聊天互相了解了一下對方生活。
故友一開始非常驚訝我的人生後半段可以自毀成現在這樣 ╮(﹀_﹀")╭
可能是顧忌到我們彼此之間的交情,所以後來對我說教的口吻也改成講故事心態了吧XD
他表示對他而言一個正常順遂的人生成長曲線,是這樣子:
22歲大學畢業、24歲碩士畢業、25歲退伍、27歲結婚+買車、28歲生子+買房、
30歲生第二個孩子、32歲升小主管、35歲升高層或是接近高層了。
他說我從22歲就脫離了正常人生軌道,現在已經年近中老年了,無可挽回任何希望了,
只能從今以後眼睜睜地看著別人玩樂生活但自己悲慘活著的過下半輩子。
要我開始好好考慮晚年該怎麼活得不痛苦有個體面的死法。
坦白說,故友的這番話確實讓我非常認同,正常順遂的人生確實是這樣子沒有錯。
不知道大家的看法如何?
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故友一開始非常驚訝我的人生後半段可以自毀成現在這樣 ╮(﹀_﹀")╭
可能是顧忌到我們彼此之間的交情,所以後來對我說教的口吻也改成講故事心態了吧XD
他表示對他而言一個正常順遂的人生成長曲線,是這樣子:
22歲大學畢業、24歲碩士畢業、25歲退伍、27歲結婚+買車、28歲生子+買房、
30歲生第二個孩子、32歲升小主管、35歲升高層或是接近高層了。
他說我從22歲就脫離了正常人生軌道,現在已經年近中老年了,無可挽回任何希望了,
只能從今以後眼睜睜地看著別人玩樂生活但自己悲慘活著的過下半輩子。
要我開始好好考慮晚年該怎麼活得不痛苦有個體面的死法。
坦白說,故友的這番話確實讓我非常認同,正常順遂的人生確實是這樣子沒有錯。
不知道大家的看法如何?
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