當想自殺時.大家是如何度過那生命難關? - 職涯

By Jacky
at 2016-02-01T09:03
at 2016-02-01T09:03
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想請問一下版友一個很私密的問題
當各位在人生中遇到難解或痛苦的問題時
或者生命的發展,跟自己預期規劃的有很大落差
眼見自己的生涯安排就要摧毀,當下也看不到未來的人生
大家是否曾經有過放棄生命或者自殺的念頭呢????
而大家當時又是如何走過那段生命中的幽谷呢???
是如何走過的呢??
如果有朋友想要自殺的話...該如何幫助他們呢??
有沒有不說大道理,不說甚麼生命可貴或者許許多多冠冕堂皇的人生真諦
卻可以幫助想自殺朋友的方法呢??
如果可以更進一步幫助他們找到人生方向的話,那就更好了
希望版友如果願意的話,希望可以分享一下
謝謝
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當各位在人生中遇到難解或痛苦的問題時
或者生命的發展,跟自己預期規劃的有很大落差
眼見自己的生涯安排就要摧毀,當下也看不到未來的人生
大家是否曾經有過放棄生命或者自殺的念頭呢????
而大家當時又是如何走過那段生命中的幽谷呢???
是如何走過的呢??
如果有朋友想要自殺的話...該如何幫助他們呢??
有沒有不說大道理,不說甚麼生命可貴或者許許多多冠冕堂皇的人生真諦
卻可以幫助想自殺朋友的方法呢??
如果可以更進一步幫助他們找到人生方向的話,那就更好了
希望版友如果願意的話,希望可以分享一下
謝謝
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By Ina
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By Dora
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By Elma
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人人生還是可以過阿,自己開心最重要

By Catherine
at 2016-02-10T17:32
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2.其實是被社會壓力 外在的價值觀給綁死了

By Oscar
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By Kama
at 2016-02-16T05:21
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如果你想要完全康復 就去找為什麼 本來就會有低潮

By Liam
at 2016-02-19T13:23
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想不開的人 最好不要讓自己一直沉浸在情緒裡面

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業

By Emma
at 2016-02-26T02:51
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here for u ...不要輕易放棄...這種時候說什麼都聽
不進去 另外 真正發生事情也不要自責 人各有命 ...

By Hardy
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By Carolina Franco
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段就會好的,到現在還是在忍耐

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By Cara
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所以要好好賺錢帶他們吃好玩好,來報答他們

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By James
at 2016-04-12T03:23
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的狀態,你還能重新開始,但若是死了,就是放棄你過
去的所有人生,連重來的機會都沒有了」

By Christine
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By Edwina
at 2016-04-29T06:27
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沒有經濟壓力的話,工作也可以換個環境)避不開的壓
力源,協助朋友規劃處理,弄成小目標,陪著他慢慢
完成,累積成就感(比如說負債,可以規劃怎樣慢慢存
錢還)
環境暫時變簡單會好些,朋友的陪同跟協助很重要(現
實殘酷的是終究要面對現實,所以要慢慢讓他在他人
生中扮演回主角)
人生漫長,不急於一時完成什麼的時候,會比較看得開
,慢慢來總會弄好的;有些時候放棄一些不實際的目
標也會好很多,比如:跟林志玲結婚、買帝寶還是跑
車之類的
回歸生活中簡單的快樂
找人生方向在情緒穩定再說吧!不然很有可能只是再回
到一個直接打垮自己的現實環境中,讓情緒崩潰

By Zanna
at 2016-04-30T00:52
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不下去,朋友的話,多陪陪對方跟開導對方就好

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By Odelette
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己痛苦的活著

By Connor
at 2016-05-02T23:25
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,如果我死都不怕了,還有什麼放不下過不去的呢?就
開始面對當下的困境。

By Doris
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的事

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或解決方法

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By Delia
at 2016-05-18T17:43
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。每天都不要回想失望的過去,當下可以快樂一天 是
一天

By Enid
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