考公職還是上班... - 公職
By Leila
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小弟今年28剛退伍,大學主修語文,研究所(私立普通學校,非淡江、文化
、元智、逢甲、東海、東吳..等較有歷史的學校)主修社會科學。
由於父親從年輕時便考進公家單位服務,目前擔任一名簡任事務官
父親一直對我抱有很大期望,一直希望我走仕途,走官場..,他認為社會
很現實,社會上很多友情的建立都是在彼此之間的利益關係上,如果沒有身
份地位,有的時候拜託別人都會被人敷衍了事,只有當官才能獲得別人的尊重
以及擁有相當程度的社會地位。
當我去外面找工作時,他總是用不屑的口氣來責罵我,他認為外面的工作都是
替人賣命,等到你沒了價值就會被踢到一邊去,而我目前是有找到一份薪資還
不錯的工作(隸屬永豐餘集團),是擔任業務管理師,底薪+津貼+績效每個月
固定約有四萬,每年薪資的調整會視考績而定,當父親知道我想去上班後,便一
直罵我,爾且講話冷言冷語認為我沒出息,他覺得家裡又不用我賺錢養家為什麼
不好好拼,簡單來說,他認為只要是民間企業,不管是多大間,他都無法認同,
只有唸書考試才有出息,過去我本身不是沒有考慮過考試,但考慮我的年紀28,
沒有太多工作經驗,如果真要考下去大概也30,考上自然很好,萬一沒考上等於
30歲才來找工作,所以我現在很猶豫..,不知道該不該去上班了,希望版上的各
位大大前輩們,能不吝給予小弟批評指正,感恩。
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、元智、逢甲、東海、東吳..等較有歷史的學校)主修社會科學。
由於父親從年輕時便考進公家單位服務,目前擔任一名簡任事務官
父親一直對我抱有很大期望,一直希望我走仕途,走官場..,他認為社會
很現實,社會上很多友情的建立都是在彼此之間的利益關係上,如果沒有身
份地位,有的時候拜託別人都會被人敷衍了事,只有當官才能獲得別人的尊重
以及擁有相當程度的社會地位。
當我去外面找工作時,他總是用不屑的口氣來責罵我,他認為外面的工作都是
替人賣命,等到你沒了價值就會被踢到一邊去,而我目前是有找到一份薪資還
不錯的工作(隸屬永豐餘集團),是擔任業務管理師,底薪+津貼+績效每個月
固定約有四萬,每年薪資的調整會視考績而定,當父親知道我想去上班後,便一
直罵我,爾且講話冷言冷語認為我沒出息,他覺得家裡又不用我賺錢養家為什麼
不好好拼,簡單來說,他認為只要是民間企業,不管是多大間,他都無法認同,
只有唸書考試才有出息,過去我本身不是沒有考慮過考試,但考慮我的年紀28,
沒有太多工作經驗,如果真要考下去大概也30,考上自然很好,萬一沒考上等於
30歲才來找工作,所以我現在很猶豫..,不知道該不該去上班了,希望版上的各
位大大前輩們,能不吝給予小弟批評指正,感恩。
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