被底下人「弄」了! - 職場

By Ina
at 2015-08-30T19:12
at 2015-08-30T19:12
Table of Contents
週五,發生了一件宛如八點檔的事情
我底下的人告訴我主管
說我陷害他、挑撥離間、侵犯他的隱私
慶幸的是我的主管相信我的人格
讓我跟他當面對質
1.陷害:
他說有一次我主管跟他說怎麼樣做場勘報告,但他覺得我主管有在責備他的意思,所以他
懷疑我將他做不好的東西給主管,害他被罵。
》但我根本沒寄,且我主管也替我證實我真的沒寄任何場勘報告給他。
2.挑撥離間:
他原本覺得我主管及會計都對他不錯,但有一次他說他聽到我跟會計說「不要對他太好,
免得他恃寵而驕」這樣的話
》我沒跟會計說過這種話,也請會計來作證,會計很直接說,我不可能說這種話,我通常
都對事不對人
3.侵犯隱私:
因我家住比較遠,且也都比較早到公司,所以我有公司鑰匙,但他說,他覺得我早上早到
公司,會開他電腦看他的facebook及line
》我們公司9:30上班,我大概9:15~20之間到,我底下人大概25分左右到,所以我根本不
可能開,我也叫他可以請IT人員看他電腦開機時間,證明我的清白
上訴三點都被一一駁回,說真的我非常心寒,雖然他很不靈光,做事不謹慎,但我從未懷
疑過或是陷害過他,但他做了這些事,我本來想fire他
但事後他跟我說他才剛畢業,很多事都不懂,且他在家又是老么,所以比較嬌,希望我可
以原諒他,他說他因為一開始不了解我所以會亂想。我也直白的跟他說我也不了解你但我
也沒隨意解讀你的行為,我叫他給我時間考慮一下。
我想問問大家,如果你的下屬這樣對你,卻也很有誠意求你原諒,甚至說願意下跪,你們
還會fire嗎?我比較擔心是觀感問題,人家都道歉了(雖然這是抹黑我人格的事,很難原
諒),fire他會不會顯的我很小心眼呢?
拜託給我點意見吧
--
我底下的人告訴我主管
說我陷害他、挑撥離間、侵犯他的隱私
慶幸的是我的主管相信我的人格
讓我跟他當面對質
1.陷害:
他說有一次我主管跟他說怎麼樣做場勘報告,但他覺得我主管有在責備他的意思,所以他
懷疑我將他做不好的東西給主管,害他被罵。
》但我根本沒寄,且我主管也替我證實我真的沒寄任何場勘報告給他。
2.挑撥離間:
他原本覺得我主管及會計都對他不錯,但有一次他說他聽到我跟會計說「不要對他太好,
免得他恃寵而驕」這樣的話
》我沒跟會計說過這種話,也請會計來作證,會計很直接說,我不可能說這種話,我通常
都對事不對人
3.侵犯隱私:
因我家住比較遠,且也都比較早到公司,所以我有公司鑰匙,但他說,他覺得我早上早到
公司,會開他電腦看他的facebook及line
》我們公司9:30上班,我大概9:15~20之間到,我底下人大概25分左右到,所以我根本不
可能開,我也叫他可以請IT人員看他電腦開機時間,證明我的清白
上訴三點都被一一駁回,說真的我非常心寒,雖然他很不靈光,做事不謹慎,但我從未懷
疑過或是陷害過他,但他做了這些事,我本來想fire他
但事後他跟我說他才剛畢業,很多事都不懂,且他在家又是老么,所以比較嬌,希望我可
以原諒他,他說他因為一開始不了解我所以會亂想。我也直白的跟他說我也不了解你但我
也沒隨意解讀你的行為,我叫他給我時間考慮一下。
我想問問大家,如果你的下屬這樣對你,卻也很有誠意求你原諒,甚至說願意下跪,你們
還會fire嗎?我比較擔心是觀感問題,人家都道歉了(雖然這是抹黑我人格的事,很難原
諒),fire他會不會顯的我很小心眼呢?
拜託給我點意見吧
--
Tags:
職場
All Comments

By Hamiltion
at 2015-09-02T11:46
at 2015-09-02T11:46

By Aaliyah
at 2015-09-07T00:55
at 2015-09-07T00:55

By Dorothy
at 2015-09-11T16:57
at 2015-09-11T16:57

By Wallis
at 2015-09-13T05:54
at 2015-09-13T05:54
炸彈

By Candice
at 2015-09-15T17:55
at 2015-09-15T17:55

By Adele
at 2015-09-19T17:37
at 2015-09-19T17:37

By Donna
at 2015-09-21T04:24
at 2015-09-21T04:24

By Kumar
at 2015-09-23T14:06
at 2015-09-23T14:06

By Hazel
at 2015-09-25T11:53
at 2015-09-25T11:53

By Candice
at 2015-09-26T05:20
at 2015-09-26T05:20

By Valerie
at 2015-09-26T12:26
at 2015-09-26T12:26

By Lydia
at 2015-09-28T11:51
at 2015-09-28T11:51

By Liam
at 2015-09-29T15:05
at 2015-09-29T15:05

By Isla
at 2015-10-03T15:04
at 2015-10-03T15:04

By Lily
at 2015-10-05T09:49
at 2015-10-05T09:49
事 人品很重要

By Connor
at 2015-10-06T15:37
at 2015-10-06T15:37

By Caroline
at 2015-10-06T20:06
at 2015-10-06T20:06
那些話

By Irma
at 2015-10-10T21:53
at 2015-10-10T21:53

By Andrew
at 2015-10-13T14:39
at 2015-10-13T14:39

By Hazel
at 2015-10-13T20:17
at 2015-10-13T20:17

By Anonymous
at 2015-10-18T07:27
at 2015-10-18T07:27

By Dora
at 2015-10-20T23:31
at 2015-10-20T23:31

By Edward Lewis
at 2015-10-24T05:05
at 2015-10-24T05:05

By Olive
at 2015-10-26T01:30
at 2015-10-26T01:30

By Ursula
at 2015-10-28T11:06
at 2015-10-28T11:06

By Gilbert
at 2015-10-31T20:30
at 2015-10-31T20:30

By Regina
at 2015-11-05T13:34
at 2015-11-05T13:34

By Elma
at 2015-11-07T02:43
at 2015-11-07T02:43

By Jake
at 2015-11-10T15:39
at 2015-11-10T15:39

By Skylar Davis
at 2015-11-12T21:33
at 2015-11-12T21:33

By Robert
at 2015-11-15T19:45
at 2015-11-15T19:45

By Noah
at 2015-11-18T17:03
at 2015-11-18T17:03

By Harry
at 2015-11-21T23:21
at 2015-11-21T23:21

By Caitlin
at 2015-11-26T08:01
at 2015-11-26T08:01

By Carolina Franco
at 2015-11-29T13:03
at 2015-11-29T13:03

By David
at 2015-12-04T12:45
at 2015-12-04T12:45

By Kyle
at 2015-12-07T15:50
at 2015-12-07T15:50

By Hedy
at 2015-12-08T22:01
at 2015-12-08T22:01

By Suhail Hany
at 2015-12-11T11:42
at 2015-12-11T11:42

By Odelette
at 2015-12-15T19:25
at 2015-12-15T19:25

By Andy
at 2015-12-19T23:44
at 2015-12-19T23:44

By Zenobia
at 2015-12-23T18:55
at 2015-12-23T18:55

By Olga
at 2015-12-24T07:19
at 2015-12-24T07:19

By Bethany
at 2015-12-25T00:22
at 2015-12-25T00:22

By Leila
at 2015-12-25T04:55
at 2015-12-25T04:55

By John
at 2015-12-27T20:35
at 2015-12-27T20:35

By Tristan Cohan
at 2015-12-31T22:01
at 2015-12-31T22:01
不然留他下來,什麼事都不用作了,光應付他就飽了

By Agatha
at 2016-01-01T21:24
at 2016-01-01T21:24
禍害請走吧!

By Vanessa
at 2016-01-05T00:05
at 2016-01-05T00:05

By Quintina
at 2016-01-07T11:27
at 2016-01-07T11:27

By Ina
at 2016-01-12T07:46
at 2016-01-12T07:46

By Kelly
at 2016-01-13T06:00
at 2016-01-13T06:00

By Elma
at 2016-01-15T22:39
at 2016-01-15T22:39

By Wallis
at 2016-01-16T02:30
at 2016-01-16T02:30

By Isla
at 2016-01-19T06:06
at 2016-01-19T06:06

By John
at 2016-01-22T18:46
at 2016-01-22T18:46
不覺得無中生有做出這些指控就很有問題嗎?

By Mason
at 2016-01-25T22:43
at 2016-01-25T22:43

By John
at 2016-01-27T01:36
at 2016-01-27T01:36
+1

By Kristin
at 2016-01-30T20:21
at 2016-01-30T20:21

By Lily
at 2016-01-30T22:40
at 2016-01-30T22:40

By Queena
at 2016-01-31T22:26
at 2016-01-31T22:26

By Harry
at 2016-02-02T08:37
at 2016-02-02T08:37

By Mia
at 2016-02-05T08:55
at 2016-02-05T08:55

By Frederic
at 2016-02-07T00:05
at 2016-02-07T00:05

By Hedwig
at 2016-02-11T17:50
at 2016-02-11T17:50

By Ivy
at 2016-02-11T22:41
at 2016-02-11T22:41

By Connor
at 2016-02-13T23:03
at 2016-02-13T23:03
做相同的事。現在只是他道行未夠,陷害不成,日後難保他會
進化。公事公辦,他的私人理由不關你事,你不開除他,就是
陷別人於不義。

By Xanthe
at 2016-02-14T07:10
at 2016-02-14T07:10
及了

By Tom
at 2016-02-16T13:33
at 2016-02-16T13:33
該給的都要給 甚至多給一些.不然真的很苦惱

By Linda
at 2016-02-21T05:39
at 2016-02-21T05:39
Related Posts
軍職與ㄧ般工作

By Candice
at 2015-08-30T19:10
at 2015-08-30T19:10
做美編做到頭很痛

By Yuri
at 2015-08-30T18:43
at 2015-08-30T18:43
軍職與ㄧ般工作

By Selena
at 2015-08-30T12:19
at 2015-08-30T12:19
童工起薪 比照基本工資

By George
at 2015-08-30T12:18
at 2015-08-30T12:18
軍職與ㄧ般工作

By Ethan
at 2015-08-30T07:38
at 2015-08-30T07:38