覺得生涯規劃失敗..有輕生的念頭 - 職涯
By Gary
at 2014-03-30T03:53
at 2014-03-30T03:53
Table of Contents
※ 引述《annakarina (安娜卡琳娜)》之銘言:
: 想想看我除了英文不錯,根本沒有什麼專業技能
: 大學喜歡的文史藝術在社會上根本沒用
: 我覺得我人生都毀了
: 一直浮現自殺的念頭
: 情緒從來沒有那麼崩潰過,到底怎麼辦?
這是要釣魚嗎?(咬餌)
恭喜你,雖然比上不足,但是我保證你比下有餘,至少底下還有我。
我現在32歲了,文科,碩士,由於大學念得比別人晚,又跑去澳洲兩
年,除了大學打工時曾經做過企劃,沒什麼特別工作經驗(大多都是
服務業或是行政助理),面試幾乎全面鎩羽。最近終於找到一個工作,
卻也不到30k,真是讓我感慨萬千。
我也沒什麼專長,英文還可以,至少在澳洲被搶時,報警寫筆錄我還
能詳細描述來龍去脈。可是離「可以當飯吃」的英文程度還有很長的
路要走。因為是文科碩士,所以中文程度尚佳,最近手頭上還有本書
要出版(這是辛苦錢啊不是每個人都是九把刀)。可是這些能力我完
全不敢寫在履歷表上啊!
如果人生可以重來一次,我一定不會選擇這條路。文史藝術在社會上
不是沒有用,而是它沒有中間值,要嘛你是大師,要嘛你是魯蛇,沒
有中間的。
儘管如此,人生還是得看開一點。你底下還有人在努力掙扎,我底下
也有人在拼命求生,你不會是最好的,也不可能是最差的。
當然我也明白,身為男人,找到人生奮鬥的目標非常重要。事實上我
父親就是因為這樣自殺的,當他吊在客廳,用一條紅尼龍線纏繞在脖
子上時,家裡的經濟情況已經壞到不能再壞了。他做什麼都不對,賠
了一堆錢,加上精神疾病,就讓他徹底崩潰了。我自己本身也割腕過
(怎麼回事啊這對父子),覺得自己什麼都不會,做什麼都很猶豫,
就這樣向著未來跌跌撞撞地前進。
可是我還是走到今天了。
因為我發現,活著才是人生最重要的一件事。什麼人生規劃啦、存幾
桶金啦,都沒這點來得重要。根本沒有人生毀掉這件事,只不過就是
換個目標繼續前進罷了,成功與失敗也是隨你個人定義。我老爸就是
沒看開這點,就算最終沒有達成人生目標又如何呢,全世界七十億人
口,你想當魯蛇王還得抽號碼牌。
人生Online,不能重來,不能存檔,你唯一的目標就是活著。
--
: 想想看我除了英文不錯,根本沒有什麼專業技能
: 大學喜歡的文史藝術在社會上根本沒用
: 我覺得我人生都毀了
: 一直浮現自殺的念頭
: 情緒從來沒有那麼崩潰過,到底怎麼辦?
這是要釣魚嗎?(咬餌)
恭喜你,雖然比上不足,但是我保證你比下有餘,至少底下還有我。
我現在32歲了,文科,碩士,由於大學念得比別人晚,又跑去澳洲兩
年,除了大學打工時曾經做過企劃,沒什麼特別工作經驗(大多都是
服務業或是行政助理),面試幾乎全面鎩羽。最近終於找到一個工作,
卻也不到30k,真是讓我感慨萬千。
我也沒什麼專長,英文還可以,至少在澳洲被搶時,報警寫筆錄我還
能詳細描述來龍去脈。可是離「可以當飯吃」的英文程度還有很長的
路要走。因為是文科碩士,所以中文程度尚佳,最近手頭上還有本書
要出版(這是辛苦錢啊不是每個人都是九把刀)。可是這些能力我完
全不敢寫在履歷表上啊!
如果人生可以重來一次,我一定不會選擇這條路。文史藝術在社會上
不是沒有用,而是它沒有中間值,要嘛你是大師,要嘛你是魯蛇,沒
有中間的。
儘管如此,人生還是得看開一點。你底下還有人在努力掙扎,我底下
也有人在拼命求生,你不會是最好的,也不可能是最差的。
當然我也明白,身為男人,找到人生奮鬥的目標非常重要。事實上我
父親就是因為這樣自殺的,當他吊在客廳,用一條紅尼龍線纏繞在脖
子上時,家裡的經濟情況已經壞到不能再壞了。他做什麼都不對,賠
了一堆錢,加上精神疾病,就讓他徹底崩潰了。我自己本身也割腕過
(怎麼回事啊這對父子),覺得自己什麼都不會,做什麼都很猶豫,
就這樣向著未來跌跌撞撞地前進。
可是我還是走到今天了。
因為我發現,活著才是人生最重要的一件事。什麼人生規劃啦、存幾
桶金啦,都沒這點來得重要。根本沒有人生毀掉這件事,只不過就是
換個目標繼續前進罷了,成功與失敗也是隨你個人定義。我老爸就是
沒看開這點,就算最終沒有達成人生目標又如何呢,全世界七十億人
口,你想當魯蛇王還得抽號碼牌。
人生Online,不能重來,不能存檔,你唯一的目標就是活著。
--
Tags:
職涯
All Comments
By Regina
at 2014-03-31T20:15
at 2014-03-31T20:15
By Zanna
at 2014-04-01T12:25
at 2014-04-01T12:25
By Regina
at 2014-04-03T07:13
at 2014-04-03T07:13
By Christine
at 2014-04-04T17:48
at 2014-04-04T17:48
By Skylar Davis
at 2014-04-08T08:04
at 2014-04-08T08:04
By Heather
at 2014-04-11T15:38
at 2014-04-11T15:38
By Daph Bay
at 2014-04-15T21:15
at 2014-04-15T21:15
By Candice
at 2014-04-17T18:51
at 2014-04-17T18:51
By Sandy
at 2014-04-19T03:27
at 2014-04-19T03:27
By Caitlin
at 2014-04-20T15:28
at 2014-04-20T15:28
By Emma
at 2014-04-22T01:26
at 2014-04-22T01:26
By Zanna
at 2014-04-23T15:51
at 2014-04-23T15:51
By Sarah
at 2014-04-24T22:25
at 2014-04-24T22:25
By Doris
at 2014-04-26T08:31
at 2014-04-26T08:31
By Hazel
at 2014-04-27T11:11
at 2014-04-27T11:11
By Rebecca
at 2014-04-28T02:03
at 2014-04-28T02:03
By Linda
at 2014-04-29T13:13
at 2014-04-29T13:13
By Hardy
at 2014-04-30T12:06
at 2014-04-30T12:06
By Iris
at 2014-05-04T11:56
at 2014-05-04T11:56
By Delia
at 2014-05-07T23:38
at 2014-05-07T23:38
By Queena
at 2014-05-08T05:33
at 2014-05-08T05:33
By Lucy
at 2014-05-12T04:02
at 2014-05-12T04:02
By Margaret
at 2014-05-14T13:38
at 2014-05-14T13:38
By Audriana
at 2014-05-14T23:54
at 2014-05-14T23:54
By Olga
at 2014-05-17T14:56
at 2014-05-17T14:56
By Donna
at 2014-05-22T07:51
at 2014-05-22T07:51
By Poppy
at 2014-05-26T22:03
at 2014-05-26T22:03
By Lucy
at 2014-05-31T14:36
at 2014-05-31T14:36
By John
at 2014-06-03T11:51
at 2014-06-03T11:51
By Damian
at 2014-06-03T14:14
at 2014-06-03T14:14
By Ida
at 2014-06-06T09:30
at 2014-06-06T09:30
By Edwina
at 2014-06-09T08:11
at 2014-06-09T08:11
By Quanna
at 2014-06-13T20:01
at 2014-06-13T20:01
By Selena
at 2014-06-15T16:27
at 2014-06-15T16:27
By Sandy
at 2014-06-16T05:33
at 2014-06-16T05:33
By Zenobia
at 2014-06-19T17:00
at 2014-06-19T17:00
By Gary
at 2014-06-24T03:59
at 2014-06-24T03:59
By Andrew
at 2014-06-26T10:21
at 2014-06-26T10:21
By Susan
at 2014-06-30T08:13
at 2014-06-30T08:13
By Gilbert
at 2014-07-01T10:00
at 2014-07-01T10:00
By Sarah
at 2014-07-03T16:54
at 2014-07-03T16:54
By Sandy
at 2014-07-07T23:12
at 2014-07-07T23:12
By Sandy
at 2014-07-11T04:55
at 2014-07-11T04:55
By Una
at 2014-07-15T02:57
at 2014-07-15T02:57
By Joe
at 2014-07-18T02:41
at 2014-07-18T02:41
By Daniel
at 2014-07-19T01:47
at 2014-07-19T01:47
By Faithe
at 2014-07-21T08:24
at 2014-07-21T08:24
By Faithe
at 2014-07-25T22:31
at 2014-07-25T22:31
By Una
at 2014-07-26T19:18
at 2014-07-26T19:18
By Michael
at 2014-07-28T23:41
at 2014-07-28T23:41
By Faithe
at 2014-08-01T10:22
at 2014-08-01T10:22
By Necoo
at 2014-08-01T11:36
at 2014-08-01T11:36
By Daniel
at 2014-08-05T16:36
at 2014-08-05T16:36
By Robert
at 2014-08-06T23:44
at 2014-08-06T23:44
By Daph Bay
at 2014-08-09T14:32
at 2014-08-09T14:32
By Ida
at 2014-08-13T08:45
at 2014-08-13T08:45
By Erin
at 2014-08-17T15:04
at 2014-08-17T15:04
By David
at 2014-08-21T05:09
at 2014-08-21T05:09
By Kumar
at 2014-08-23T21:24
at 2014-08-23T21:24
By Una
at 2014-08-24T00:40
at 2014-08-24T00:40
By Necoo
at 2014-08-26T03:37
at 2014-08-26T03:37
By Ursula
at 2014-08-26T23:58
at 2014-08-26T23:58
By Megan
at 2014-08-29T12:44
at 2014-08-29T12:44
By Charlotte
at 2014-08-30T21:22
at 2014-08-30T21:22
By Christine
at 2014-09-01T14:11
at 2014-09-01T14:11
By Agatha
at 2014-09-04T06:35
at 2014-09-04T06:35
By Lucy
at 2014-09-06T03:14
at 2014-09-06T03:14
By Liam
at 2014-09-06T07:31
at 2014-09-06T07:31
By Audriana
at 2014-09-07T17:50
at 2014-09-07T17:50
By George
at 2014-09-10T17:03
at 2014-09-10T17:03
By Noah
at 2014-09-11T07:45
at 2014-09-11T07:45
By Emily
at 2014-09-15T14:11
at 2014-09-15T14:11
By Joseph
at 2014-09-18T19:16
at 2014-09-18T19:16
By Kyle
at 2014-09-23T10:47
at 2014-09-23T10:47
By Ida
at 2014-09-24T17:49
at 2014-09-24T17:49
By Rae
at 2014-09-27T20:57
at 2014-09-27T20:57
By Hazel
at 2014-09-30T04:02
at 2014-09-30T04:02
By Doris
at 2014-10-02T03:09
at 2014-10-02T03:09
By Doris
at 2014-10-06T11:48
at 2014-10-06T11:48
By Elma
at 2014-10-07T19:48
at 2014-10-07T19:48
By Bennie
at 2014-10-08T06:20
at 2014-10-08T06:20
Related Posts
如果不能在公司自然退休 有何因應?
By Hazel
at 2014-03-29T22:26
at 2014-03-29T22:26
計畫又失敗該怎麼辦
By Megan
at 2014-03-29T21:53
at 2014-03-29T21:53
念完應用德文係的出路在哪?
By Madame
at 2014-03-26T23:17
at 2014-03-26T23:17
台積電暑期實習推薦函事宜
By Freda
at 2014-03-26T23:10
at 2014-03-26T23:10
不知道該怎麼選擇
By Quanna
at 2014-03-26T20:51
at 2014-03-26T20:51