該主動幫忙新進的同事嗎? - 職場
By John
at 2018-11-27T00:33
at 2018-11-27T00:33
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其實會問這個問題主要也是這位同事讓我有點火
對方是剛畢業的新鮮人
因為我在職場也打滾快十年了
不希望新進同事跟我當初一樣
要資源沒資源、還要扛一堆有的沒的上層壓力
所以我能幫忙的
我也都釋出善意的主動幫忙或提醒
但不知道是我語氣態度或者是我太多管閒事
對方對我的主動幫忙似乎當作是理所當然
有時候甚至語氣上也不太客氣(會直接說"喂,那個要怎麼做?")
對方入職到現在快三個月
我還沒聽過他,因為我對他的幫助道過一聲"謝謝"
講實話我對自己感到非常的矛盾跟厭惡
明明是希望能幫助到對方,對方也的確有顯著的進步
但是因為對方這樣的態度,讓我卻非常後悔我當初為什麼這麼雞婆要幫他
本來助人為快樂之本
但我卻一點也快樂不起來
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對方是剛畢業的新鮮人
因為我在職場也打滾快十年了
不希望新進同事跟我當初一樣
要資源沒資源、還要扛一堆有的沒的上層壓力
所以我能幫忙的
我也都釋出善意的主動幫忙或提醒
但不知道是我語氣態度或者是我太多管閒事
對方對我的主動幫忙似乎當作是理所當然
有時候甚至語氣上也不太客氣(會直接說"喂,那個要怎麼做?")
對方入職到現在快三個月
我還沒聽過他,因為我對他的幫助道過一聲"謝謝"
講實話我對自己感到非常的矛盾跟厭惡
明明是希望能幫助到對方,對方也的確有顯著的進步
但是因為對方這樣的態度,讓我卻非常後悔我當初為什麼這麼雞婆要幫他
本來助人為快樂之本
但我卻一點也快樂不起來
--
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