霸凌我的前輩 - 職場
By Jacky
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第一次發文,內容有點長
我是一名小小的工程助理,這份工作已經快一年多
很喜歡這份工作,可前陣子和一位前輩處的不好
一開始覺得她人蠻好的,雖然跟她不同組,
而她也不是我主管,但有時與她會有工作交集,
後來發現她只要心情不好,很容易隨便發脾氣,
但只會對特定幾個同事發洩情緒,對長官或一些資深前輩不會
而前陣子我工作上有一些疏失,她就會對我大小聲
有時對我有一些做事情的看法和誤解,想解釋時
會用態度很差,破口大罵的語氣直接指責
可能覺得我年齡較小,常對我指令一些事情
沒有按她的方式去做就會破口大罵
事件一:有次工程師給業主的送審裡,有關業主對案子管理費的意見
而我只是負責幫忙登記文件收發的,她突然把這份交給我要求把這張意見
直接掃描到賴群組,我當下很困惑,想問她時人已離開辦公室
想等她回來再確認,可她遲遲還沒回辦公室,於是我把此文件該主辦工程師,
把前輩的話陳述一遍,請主辦先聯繫長官再請主辦請他請示長官要不要發至群組
且該內容我直接發布很奇怪,我只是個工程助理,而她也不是我的主管她也不是長官
後來她回來後第一句話居然在當眾對我大聲:
妳賴到底發了沒我已經出去半個小時了,都還沒看到妳發布
我當下態度很溫和地說已經把該文件交給該主辦去處理請他聯繫長官
她很輕蔑的回我:那妳以後就聽他們的話吧~我的話就不要聽阿
下一秒她就在群組更改使用印章的規則,而最常使用印章的是我
她是保管人有權利制定使用規則,但很明顯就是要我難看
有時文件十幾份我就必須登記十幾份才能蓋章
像這樣的事件越來越多,我也私下溝通過請她不要這樣
也通報過長官,但她還是持續如此這樣的行為,甚至開始針對我
有時我只是把送審文件先擱著處理主管交代的事
她就會在我身邊大聲嚷嚷的嘲諷我壓件,還說看我要壓件壓多久
而像寄信她也會拆我要寄的信來看,有一次我回辦公室下午四點拿信給她
她就大聲辱罵,原本我是對待同事很和善的人,別人對我口氣不好
都會好聲好氣的先了解事情優先,而這次因為她比較早去郵局
而我不知道,就罵說她出去寄完了我才拿出來放她桌上
還故意跟我主管說我們組的信因為太晚送了唷不幫你們寄了蛤
但從那次也開始反擊回去,而前幾天她又趁長官不在
想找我麻煩且故意拿小事想訓斥我,直接警告她,她做的任何傷害我的事情
會一一紀錄並且錄音下來,而她完全沒有意識到自己的行為是霸凌
還反問 我有帶髒字嗎?你錄阿!
而事發過後,我還聽見前輩啜泣的聲音,當下只覺得很無言
面對這樣的人,周圍的同事只會沉默不會替妳發聲
大家都知道她愛亂發脾氣,也知道她只敢欺負職等低的人
第一次面對這樣的事情,也是第一次在外面兇比自己年長的前輩
今天妳不拿出自己guts來,人家就會把你當塑膠做的
而沉默容忍也只是助長她的行為,持續被欺負而已
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