冷淡的同事 - 職場

By Sarah
at 2011-12-05T01:06
at 2011-12-05T01:06
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有人在職場遇過冷淡的同事嗎? 我待的地方扣掉老闆夫婦,剩下三名員工包括我都是女生
其他兩個都是在公司今年開業時就一起進來,所以感情好無可厚非。我不是個活潑的人
,從旁人眼光看就是安靜不多話。但是一旦熟了就可以放很開。
剛開始進公司時,試過跟同事B攀談,可是聊不起來,我問一句他答一句,
接著就沒下文了。同事A很活潑,偶爾會跟我聊工作上的事情(你的學生怎麼樣啦、上課時
都怎麼教啦之類的)。原本想說同事B也跟我差不多,可能遇到陌生人比較放不開,
可是他與同事A常常有說有笑.....而我到現在最大限度的交談就是每天見面時的"早"= =
也不是說我一定要與同事熟絡到哪裡去,只是有時候,聽他們在旁邊或樓上說說笑笑,
就會有種被排擠的感覺.....我也嘗試在他們聊天時插個一兩句話,可是效果不彰,
我依然與同事B非常陌生,而他似乎沒有一絲想跟我稍微聊天一下的感覺...
雖然職場上其他地方沒有甚麼大問題,但是人際上我覺得好孤單,有種..孤軍奮鬥的感覺
。我會不會是態度還是哪裡出了問題呢?或者其實這是職場的常態?
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其他兩個都是在公司今年開業時就一起進來,所以感情好無可厚非。我不是個活潑的人
,從旁人眼光看就是安靜不多話。但是一旦熟了就可以放很開。
剛開始進公司時,試過跟同事B攀談,可是聊不起來,我問一句他答一句,
接著就沒下文了。同事A很活潑,偶爾會跟我聊工作上的事情(你的學生怎麼樣啦、上課時
都怎麼教啦之類的)。原本想說同事B也跟我差不多,可能遇到陌生人比較放不開,
可是他與同事A常常有說有笑.....而我到現在最大限度的交談就是每天見面時的"早"= =
也不是說我一定要與同事熟絡到哪裡去,只是有時候,聽他們在旁邊或樓上說說笑笑,
就會有種被排擠的感覺.....我也嘗試在他們聊天時插個一兩句話,可是效果不彰,
我依然與同事B非常陌生,而他似乎沒有一絲想跟我稍微聊天一下的感覺...
雖然職場上其他地方沒有甚麼大問題,但是人際上我覺得好孤單,有種..孤軍奮鬥的感覺
。我會不會是態度還是哪裡出了問題呢?或者其實這是職場的常態?
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