家管vs在外工作,你們會怎麼選? - 薪水
By Edward Lewis
at 2019-02-20T21:58
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嗨,首先簡短自介一下,
我是七年級前段班的男生,中部人,
在北市的私立大學文組畢業,
是家中唯一的男生,
還有一姊已嫁至有錢人家。
出社會後,
第一份工作就找上北市的行銷企劃,
後續也有更換過兩份工作,
但一直都待在行銷企劃這個領域之中。
但,這樣的生活,在今年一月份發生劇變,
當時由於對上一份工作不滿意,
正在待業中,薪水落在三萬八左右。
而大學時期交往十一年的女友,
與我分手了!
傷心之餘,也找機會跟父母說明了這件事。
後續,父親跟我提出,
他已即將邁向七十歲,
近年深感體力衰退,一些慢性病的症狀也逐漸加強,
希望我之後就留在中部的家中,
協助照顧他退休後的興趣-高價盆景。
木親栽種了約有上百盆的金柳,
還有松樹等,院子甚大,
全部澆水,施肥及修剪就約去掉半天時間,
今年又預計要換盆,他感到自己已經做不來了。
(父親退休前是從事藝術產業,
獲利模式是向公家機關或企業提案大型藝術造景,
後期因改制為公開招標後,案子漸少逐漸退休,
自然也難以再交接給我)
並預估當我滿四五十歲時,
這些盆景只要能銷售出去,
約能有數百萬元的進帳。
以及希望將他做股票的技巧教給我,
目前他操作數十年下來的結果,
若平均為月薪,約一個月五萬上下。
母親為退休的學校主任,
也同樣希望我未來就留在家中,
可以照顧越來越衰老的他們。
並告知我未來就好好發展自己的興趣即可。
對我這樣家管的期盼,
父親開出的薪資是一個月四萬五,
但因為我吃住家裡,
所以實給三萬五。
至於這筆錢,我個人內心的想法,
是覺得,其實這就是成年版的零用錢,
我拿不拿其實都不是重點了。
十多年的感情分手,
加上家中對我這樣的期盼,
也很少在我的社交圈中耳聞過這樣的例子,
其實讓我十分不知所措。
也親眼看見過年時,
父親開車出車庫,
因年老力衰,
擦撞了車庫四五次,
父親壯年時開車技術很好,
常開車南來北往跑案子,
看在眼中其實百感交集。
這陣子失魂落魄,
下週一就要回台北把租屋處的行李先搬回中部了,
想上來聽聽版友意見,
如果是你們會如何抉擇?
感謝!
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