月薪比男友多10萬!她苦問「男生會介意 - 薪水
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作者: luxuryer () 看板: Gossiping
標題: [新聞] 月薪比男友多10萬!她苦問「男生會介意
時間: Fri Sep 3 14:25:07 2021
1.媒體來源:
ETtoday新聞雲
2.記者署名:
黃可昀
3.完整新聞標題:
月薪比男友多10萬!她苦問「男生會介意嗎?」 網誠實答案2派戰翻
4.完整新聞內文:
伴侶的收入有可能影響到感情,因為牽涉到兩人的金錢觀、花錢習慣等,如果是女方賺得
比男方多,會導致彼此心態不平衡嗎?一名女子月薪16萬、男友月薪6萬,雖然她自己不
太介意,但很擔心男友會放大此事,「一般男生會介意年紀比自己小的女友薪水多過自己
嗎?」
原PO在Dcard表示,她擔任SOHO族接案子,目前月薪16萬還有成長空間,男友則是月薪6萬
,雖然同樣有加薪機會,不過很難超越原PO的16萬。她煩惱的並非男友收入比較低,因為
兩人物質欲望都很低,除了生活基本開銷,其餘的錢幾乎都是存起來,很少出去玩或是吃
大餐,所以這薪水對兩人來說很夠用了。
https://cdn2.ettoday.net/images/4873/4873928.jpg
▲網友認為,該擔心的是收入落差造成的金錢觀不同。(示意圖/取自免費圖庫Pexels)
原PO覺得尷尬的是,社會還是有男性該扛經濟壓力的刻板印象,也會對男性有賺更多的期
望,尤其是她年紀還比男友小,擔心自己收入比男友高這麼多,會造成對方的壓力,「自
己是覺得男生能有上進心一起努力就好,一般男生會介意年紀比自己小的女友薪水多過自
己嗎?」
一半男網友不介意,反倒為另一半感到驕傲,「一堆女生都不介意男友薪水比自己高了,
男生也沒必要在意」、「我會覺得很爽欸,有一個有能力的女友」、「其他人難免會有閒
言閒語,不過那也只是因為他們老婆沒辦法賺那麼多」;另一半男網友則難以接受,覺得
會出現自卑心態,「老實說是我的話超級介意,沒辦法我是一個想法傳統的沙豬」、「社
會大多數的人的觀念可能還是會覺得男的是靠老婆靠女友,這方面也還沒真正的平權」、
「我男友說如果我比他高他會介意,他說其實很多男生在這塊還是有點壓力的,所以我覺
得好辛苦。」
5.完整新聞連結 (或短網址):
https://www.ettoday.net/news/20210902/2070627.htm
6.備註:
※ 一個人三天只能張貼一則新聞,被刪或自刪也算額度內,超貼者水桶,請注意
※ 備註請勿張貼三日內新聞(包含連結、標題等)
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作者: luxuryer () 看板: Gossiping
標題: [新聞] 月薪比男友多10萬!她苦問「男生會介意
時間: Fri Sep 3 14:25:07 2021
1.媒體來源:
ETtoday新聞雲
2.記者署名:
黃可昀
3.完整新聞標題:
月薪比男友多10萬!她苦問「男生會介意嗎?」 網誠實答案2派戰翻
4.完整新聞內文:
伴侶的收入有可能影響到感情,因為牽涉到兩人的金錢觀、花錢習慣等,如果是女方賺得
比男方多,會導致彼此心態不平衡嗎?一名女子月薪16萬、男友月薪6萬,雖然她自己不
太介意,但很擔心男友會放大此事,「一般男生會介意年紀比自己小的女友薪水多過自己
嗎?」
原PO在Dcard表示,她擔任SOHO族接案子,目前月薪16萬還有成長空間,男友則是月薪6萬
,雖然同樣有加薪機會,不過很難超越原PO的16萬。她煩惱的並非男友收入比較低,因為
兩人物質欲望都很低,除了生活基本開銷,其餘的錢幾乎都是存起來,很少出去玩或是吃
大餐,所以這薪水對兩人來說很夠用了。
https://cdn2.ettoday.net/images/4873/4873928.jpg
▲網友認為,該擔心的是收入落差造成的金錢觀不同。(示意圖/取自免費圖庫Pexels)
原PO覺得尷尬的是,社會還是有男性該扛經濟壓力的刻板印象,也會對男性有賺更多的期
望,尤其是她年紀還比男友小,擔心自己收入比男友高這麼多,會造成對方的壓力,「自
己是覺得男生能有上進心一起努力就好,一般男生會介意年紀比自己小的女友薪水多過自
己嗎?」
一半男網友不介意,反倒為另一半感到驕傲,「一堆女生都不介意男友薪水比自己高了,
男生也沒必要在意」、「我會覺得很爽欸,有一個有能力的女友」、「其他人難免會有閒
言閒語,不過那也只是因為他們老婆沒辦法賺那麼多」;另一半男網友則難以接受,覺得
會出現自卑心態,「老實說是我的話超級介意,沒辦法我是一個想法傳統的沙豬」、「社
會大多數的人的觀念可能還是會覺得男的是靠老婆靠女友,這方面也還沒真正的平權」、
「我男友說如果我比他高他會介意,他說其實很多男生在這塊還是有點壓力的,所以我覺
得好辛苦。」
5.完整新聞連結 (或短網址):
https://www.ettoday.net/news/20210902/2070627.htm
6.備註:
※ 一個人三天只能張貼一則新聞,被刪或自刪也算額度內,超貼者水桶,請注意
※ 備註請勿張貼三日內新聞(包含連結、標題等)
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