沒有正式工作 女生真的都很在意嗎? - 老師
By Gilbert
at 2018-08-14T21:20
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找對象應該也算是生涯規劃的一環?
簡述一下
跟某女性交往一年多
她一直對外宣稱單身
而且常常看我不順眼
小事臭臉脾氣
分手之後她才坦承
因為對我的現實條件很不滿意
她希望對象是有房有車 年薪百萬左右
正常的朝九晚五上班族。
而我的狀況:
無車 ,有機車。
工作是學校兼課約聘老師
月薪約三萬
但是我另外是收租為主
北部有二房東 收租 三萬
南部三間公寓 收租 三萬八
另外新北有間自有公寓正在裝修中
預計之後可以收租四萬
所以收入結構是
薪資三萬
二房東 三萬
大房東 三萬
總計九萬
女方很不能接受
原因是
1. 為何不能做一個簡單的上班族
像工程師 領六萬 年薪百萬
就跟大多數正常人一樣?
2. 為何錢一直拿去買投資收租的房子
不在臺北買一間自住就好?
有自住才有安全感。
3.她朋友能在樹林新莊買450的公寓
為何我不能找到?
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我的看法是
1.
我已經四十歲,突然要轉職,要馬上領五六萬
根本不可能。
再者,做上班族會被綁住所有時間
根本不可能像現在的我,週只要上班三天,又自由,時薪又比上班族高,可以開發更多房屋
相關收入。
例如我只要能多找到一個房客,
馬上月入多五千,
上班族要加薪,5000.要很久吧?
2.
就是因為我投資收租房,才能有現在的收入。一樣是穩定收入,為何不能接受呢?
(她覺得收租就是不穩定工作)
3.
.我現在住市區租屋等同免費住,
幹嘛把錢買樹林公寓自住,
就算我買了,也是會拿去出租吧?
如果你真的因為很急著想結婚要有房,
可以你先拿些錢出來,一起買間小房不好嗎?
(她拒絕,因為房車是男人的責任,
而且她工作十餘年,存款大概70萬)
總之她就是覺得我很不ok
完全不符合她期望。
她叫我來問一下其他女生
是不是跟她一樣
都不能接受我的狀況?
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