老闆不喜歡個性安靜內向的員工嗎? - 職場

By Ida
at 2010-09-27T13:21
at 2010-09-27T13:21
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個性內向、慢熟,在職場上真的會比較吃虧嗎?
一位要好的朋友,個性是屬於那種慢熟型的,相處久了,
就知道他不是那種不能開玩笑的人,也會和大家說笑,
但一開始相處時,會覺得他比較安靜……
最近,他換了一份新工作,雖然工作內容他都可以做好,但還是很煩惱,
有一次,他跟我說,老闆約談他,表示希望他可以不要那麼安靜,
要多跟大家互動,公司想要找的不是員工,而是夥伴,
如果他的個性再不改,就不打算再用他……
還警告他,那份工作的上一個員工,就是因為這種問題被辭退的~
我聽了以後,有點生氣,雖然活潑外向一點的人之於工作氣氛應該會歡樂一點,
但對於是否適任這份工作,應該不是絕對吧?
這個世界上有外向的人,也會有內向的人,重點是員工的能力是否能勝任這份工作吧~
我贊同員工應該跟其他同事多點互動,但要因此而辭退員工,是否太嚴重了點呢?
我本身也是慢熟型的人,知道要強迫自己轉換個性的辛苦跟過程中會遇到的尷尬,
但我比較幸運,還沒遇到會因此要我走人的老闆!
大家有這樣的困擾嗎?或能給些什麼建議呢?
不曉得個性內向的人,都怎麼處理這樣的問題呢?
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一位要好的朋友,個性是屬於那種慢熟型的,相處久了,
就知道他不是那種不能開玩笑的人,也會和大家說笑,
但一開始相處時,會覺得他比較安靜……
最近,他換了一份新工作,雖然工作內容他都可以做好,但還是很煩惱,
有一次,他跟我說,老闆約談他,表示希望他可以不要那麼安靜,
要多跟大家互動,公司想要找的不是員工,而是夥伴,
如果他的個性再不改,就不打算再用他……
還警告他,那份工作的上一個員工,就是因為這種問題被辭退的~
我聽了以後,有點生氣,雖然活潑外向一點的人之於工作氣氛應該會歡樂一點,
但對於是否適任這份工作,應該不是絕對吧?
這個世界上有外向的人,也會有內向的人,重點是員工的能力是否能勝任這份工作吧~
我贊同員工應該跟其他同事多點互動,但要因此而辭退員工,是否太嚴重了點呢?
我本身也是慢熟型的人,知道要強迫自己轉換個性的辛苦跟過程中會遇到的尷尬,
但我比較幸運,還沒遇到會因此要我走人的老闆!
大家有這樣的困擾嗎?或能給些什麼建議呢?
不曉得個性內向的人,都怎麼處理這樣的問題呢?
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