與公司老鳥處不來被排擠,該怎麼辦? - 職場
By Tracy
at 2023-07-09T12:52
at 2023-07-09T12:52
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大家好
我在之前的文章有提過老鳥的問題
後來我選擇繼續做
但現在我遇到瓶頸,想請教大家意見
我跟老鳥B在部門是不同組別 後來他被拔擢當小主管 有些事他還是會主導
但我跟公司老鳥B處不來已有一段時間
老鳥B總是一付高高在上
例如 我問他問題 總是不正面回答 講話很含糊
態度冷漠 開會時刻意不坐我旁邊
平常也不會跟我講話
但他對新來的同事妹妹 卻是主動熱心教導、連犯錯都會主動幫他們擦屁股
連平常在公司都會一起開玩笑
有時聽到他們的笑聲 我都會覺得自己格格不入 甚至有點尷尬
因為公司老鳥B作風強勢 加上在公司跟其他部門關係不錯
在主管前有一定的影響力
所以我們部門也有幾個同事主動跟老鳥B靠攏 形成一個小團體
平常他們都在一起嘻鬧 我雖然跟他們沒有交惡 但總覺得打不入他們圈圈
最近新來的一個空降中階主管C 是男性 工作歸屬在我這組業務
他因為不了解公司制度 所以反而要跟老鳥B常常請教問題
但來沒多久 就發現他很積極要打入老鳥B的勢力圈
連私底下 他都會主動跟老鳥B靠攏 主動搭話 談笑風生
這在我看來 心中很不是滋味
他對我 明明跟我是同組 業務會經常接觸
但對我講話都是公事公辦 態度有時也不客氣 很強勢叫我做事
有時我們原本要一起跟廠商開會 他會突然不見 跑去做其他的事
我感覺沒有受到尊重
我最近心情很低落
我在工作崗位很認真 個性溫和 講話和氣 不會與人衝突
但莫名被冷落排擠
連新來的主管C 也一直去巴結老鳥B,
他也主動向其他跟老鳥B同一團的同事示好 打情罵俏 一起團訂飲料
相對我的態度 天差地遠
但是人際關係這種事,讓我每天工作很不開心
請問我該怎麼辦?
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All Comments
By Audriana
at 2023-07-09T20:35
at 2023-07-09T20:35
公事公辦,你自己要往心裡去,誰也幫不了你。
By Barb Cronin
at 2023-07-10T04:19
at 2023-07-10T04:19
好做事 職場就是這樣 不然受不了就離
By Sandy
at 2023-07-10T12:02
at 2023-07-10T12:02
By Eden
at 2023-07-10T19:45
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By Doris
at 2023-07-11T03:29
at 2023-07-11T03:29
也不要太看不起別人..... 即使你再不喜歡那個老鳥B
By Andrew
at 2023-07-11T11:12
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By Faithe
at 2023-07-11T18:56
at 2023-07-11T18:56
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By Regina
at 2023-07-12T02:39
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By Bennie
at 2023-07-12T10:23
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By Elma
at 2023-07-12T18:06
at 2023-07-12T18:06
要不就走人 另外開闢新天地
By Quintina
at 2023-07-13T01:49
at 2023-07-13T01:49
By Odelette
at 2023-07-13T09:33
at 2023-07-13T09:33
在講的而是別人在講的吧 實際上很多人講話明明就很雷還
自以為沒問題的勒
By Regina
at 2023-07-13T17:16
at 2023-07-13T17:16
By Oscar
at 2023-07-14T01:00
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By Megan
at 2023-07-14T08:43
at 2023-07-14T08:43
要思考一下你自己在職場上、在別人的眼中到底是什
麼樣的形像?如果你不怕自信心受損,我覺得你可以坦
白在離職前問一下其他人。
By James
at 2023-07-14T16:26
at 2023-07-14T16:26
這就是人善被人欺,我是建議你找個興趣嗜好讓你自己建立
By Aaliyah
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
養寵物轉移注意力,不要在意公司的人是否喜歡你,被欺負
時也可以直說請你說話友善一點,要多保護自己。
By Kumar
at 2023-07-14T17:49
at 2023-07-14T17:49
By Kumar
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
如果可以的話,也可以研究一下星座之類的,看看自己有無
By Liam
at 2023-07-14T17:49
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By Olga
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
對你不理解也無法給出更支援你的幫助
By Barb Cronin
at 2023-07-14T17:49
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By Ida
at 2023-07-14T10:05
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By Damian
at 2023-07-14T17:49
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By Iris
at 2023-07-14T10:05
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By Xanthe
at 2023-07-14T17:49
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By Edward Lewis
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
這也是一個知名Id
By Faithe
at 2023-07-14T17:49
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By Emily
at 2023-07-14T10:05
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By Noah
at 2023-07-14T17:49
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By Dorothy
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
好.況且職場本來就是有許多不同的狀況,非當事人真的難以
評斷
By Kumar
at 2023-07-14T17:49
at 2023-07-14T17:49
By Elvira
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
但不代表久了以後,他們感情還會這麼好就是了
By Erin
at 2023-07-14T17:49
at 2023-07-14T17:49
By Tracy
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
覺得你太患得患失,如果你不想跟那個老鳥團感情好
By Hedy
at 2023-07-14T17:49
at 2023-07-14T17:49
不然會很容易被丟工作被打壓
By Zanna
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
By Thomas
at 2023-07-14T17:49
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By Hedwig
at 2023-07-14T10:05
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By William
at 2023-07-14T17:49
at 2023-07-14T17:49
養活自己一陣子
By Jack
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
By Selena
at 2023-07-14T17:49
at 2023-07-14T17:49
離職了啦
By Harry
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
By Caitlin
at 2023-07-14T17:49
at 2023-07-14T17:49
By Hazel
at 2023-07-14T10:05
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By Harry
at 2023-07-14T17:49
at 2023-07-14T17:49
By Ophelia
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
By Elvira
at 2023-07-14T17:49
at 2023-07-14T17:49
怎麼這麼多小劇場...
By William
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
若你們有開會,讓更高的人看得見,自然就沒什麼沒什麼好擔
心他鬥你。若你真的不適應也不打算讓自己突出一些,建議也
是可以走路,不然憋久了身心理都不舒服。
By Dorothy
at 2023-07-14T17:49
at 2023-07-14T17:49
By Faithe
at 2023-07-14T10:05
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By Tom
at 2023-07-14T17:49
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By Ula
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By Emma
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By Noah
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By Lauren
at 2023-07-14T17:49
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By Xanthe
at 2023-07-14T10:05
at 2023-07-14T10:05
善被人欺
By Hamiltion
at 2023-07-14T17:49
at 2023-07-14T17:49
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