覺得自己做人好失敗 - 職場
By Madame
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想請大家把我罵醒
本魯是今年菜到不行的菜鳥
剛進公司一個多月就和主管交惡..
先說明我公司的職場平常大家都是獨立作業比較多,主管是只有在開會時將自己部門的意見統合起來讓老闆知道,在工作內容上主管其實管不太到我們。
一開始是我們在開小meeting的時候,
當她跟我說希望我能夠多和同事們交流時,我很誠實的回答說我希望能給我一點時間去適應,我現階段大概還是希望保持距離,不過我會努力去做到( 當初她是說如果我們有任何問題一定要提出來討論),
結果主管似乎就覺得我太直接,並不希望和同事們交好,從那時開始態度就變得很冷淡,跟我一個同期的比起來差距更明顯。
主管可以和那名新人打打鬧鬧的,也很願意教她,對我就沒有那麼大的耐心,造成我也被影響到工作方面一直錯誤百出......
今天又在再跟主管談一次,不過她是請副主管來跟我說,大概是因為我前一天又太誠實的跟她討論我最近的表現不好以及我現在變得有點怕她。
今天副主管來跟我講了很多,說其實主管真的是對事不對人,你工作做不好,她當然就生氣,而且她的脾氣也真的很直,你當下有什麼不對的地方,她就是會直接講出來,造成口氣不好,讓我覺得難受。
今天和副主管問了很多也討論了很多,我哪裡表現不好或是需要改進的地方,我今天聽下去
了我一定會改。
但我覺得還是沒達到我的目的—跟主管敞開談
可能主管也怕因為我怕她而無法講出真正的想法,所以請副主管來跟我談,不過我倒是希望他能夠對著我直接說明我哪裡不足,因為這樣我才有辦法去扭轉她對我的印象,
儘管今天副主管也有跟我說你是來工作不是來交朋友,沒有必要想和大家都相處的好,若是我覺得主管的教學方式無法接受她們也能夠去調整,讓別人來教我。
我當下覺得大家真的都很好,我也很榮幸能夠遇到容忍度那麼大的公司,能夠接納我這個不會做人處事的白癡,
只不過我覺得這份工作能夠讓我學習很多,也希望能繼續待下去,那勢必還是會和主管有接觸,但我認為今天的談話似乎沒有讓她改變對我的看法,可能這樣的情況還會繼續下去......
結果今天她們讓我先搬離現在的座位(我原本在主管正前方) 先去遠一點的位置,負責別的同事的事,也換她們教我,讓我又開始想她是不是更討厭我,變得更慌了
請大家毫不留情的罵我吧!如果有任何建議都可以提出來,把我這個不會做人的智障罵醒,拜託大家了
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