關於成就焦慮... - 職涯
By Rebecca
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今年就要邁入34歲了,身邊朋友在各領域都小有成就,總覺得只有自己一事無成,常常陷
入焦慮。
我是商管+資訊背景,大學研究所都是國立前段,以前求學時期並沒有什麼同儕比較的心
態,就算成績一般或吊車尾,也不覺得怎麼樣,出社會後的幾年(25-30),的確能比較的
東西多了,公司、薪資、職位等,但當時也只是聽聽就過,沒有覺得自己特別差,而在30
歲之後,身邊朋友的薪資、職位、資產甚至社經地位似乎以等比的速度攀升,這感覺就像
,頭幾年大家都在播種,還看不出差異,而約莫就在30歲那幾年,大家陸續開花結果,差
距整個拉開了...
其實我也知道,我焦慮的來源就是愛跟別人比較,也知道真正的強者會好好花時間在自己
身上,不會總想著別人,甚至拿這個來困擾自己,然而,心態上真的很難不被這些現實的
落差所影響,我變得不想去朋友聚會,不愛滑動態,怕因為又聽/看到別人的成就而自己
黯然神傷,覺得自己不如人。
本身工作薪水綜觀來說應該尚可,但在朋友圈中大概是墊底,搞得自己很沒自信,每天睡
前睡醒都想著自己大概永遠也追不上了,覺得很丟臉很想躲起來。
有嘗試重建心態,認可自己的價值,試著保持正面樂觀的態度,但常常又會因為一點刺激
或emo就將我打回焦慮的迴圈。
我想要成功,也知道自己有潛力,但過去在職場上累積的挫折,現在跟同儕比較的自卑,
讓我好像沒有勇氣去嘗試新的挑戰,也無法冷靜踏實的在既有崗位上力求表現。焦慮、憂
鬱、迷茫、無助籠罩著我,我好想發光,找回自己的氣場,但想著這些的同時,又只會拿
起手機刷mo ptt,試圖解壓...然後一天又過了,我還在原地,壓力山大。
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入焦慮。
我是商管+資訊背景,大學研究所都是國立前段,以前求學時期並沒有什麼同儕比較的心
態,就算成績一般或吊車尾,也不覺得怎麼樣,出社會後的幾年(25-30),的確能比較的
東西多了,公司、薪資、職位等,但當時也只是聽聽就過,沒有覺得自己特別差,而在30
歲之後,身邊朋友的薪資、職位、資產甚至社經地位似乎以等比的速度攀升,這感覺就像
,頭幾年大家都在播種,還看不出差異,而約莫就在30歲那幾年,大家陸續開花結果,差
距整個拉開了...
其實我也知道,我焦慮的來源就是愛跟別人比較,也知道真正的強者會好好花時間在自己
身上,不會總想著別人,甚至拿這個來困擾自己,然而,心態上真的很難不被這些現實的
落差所影響,我變得不想去朋友聚會,不愛滑動態,怕因為又聽/看到別人的成就而自己
黯然神傷,覺得自己不如人。
本身工作薪水綜觀來說應該尚可,但在朋友圈中大概是墊底,搞得自己很沒自信,每天睡
前睡醒都想著自己大概永遠也追不上了,覺得很丟臉很想躲起來。
有嘗試重建心態,認可自己的價值,試著保持正面樂觀的態度,但常常又會因為一點刺激
或emo就將我打回焦慮的迴圈。
我想要成功,也知道自己有潛力,但過去在職場上累積的挫折,現在跟同儕比較的自卑,
讓我好像沒有勇氣去嘗試新的挑戰,也無法冷靜踏實的在既有崗位上力求表現。焦慮、憂
鬱、迷茫、無助籠罩著我,我好想發光,找回自己的氣場,但想著這些的同時,又只會拿
起手機刷mo ptt,試圖解壓...然後一天又過了,我還在原地,壓力山大。
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