上班當同事,下班不認識。 - 職場
By Hedy
at 2021-03-10T14:12
at 2021-03-10T14:12
Table of Contents
出社會工作歷經15年
直到今年才懂這句話的真隨
以前都很嚮往大公司的環境
同部門或者跨部門之間
大家除了公事以外
也會閒聊很多生活瑣事
就像把同事當朋友一般對待
放假也會互相邀約出遊、吃飯
但結婚、生子、成家後
漸漸對這些職場社交感到厭倦
對於同事的態度也不像以往那麼熱絡
上班除了交辦公事以外
幾乎沒講超過10句話
絕對秉持不加班原則
就算加班也要去申請加班費
下班後的各種邀約在第一次時
就直接表明沒空更沒有興趣
從此再也沒有第二次邀約
甚至團購零食、自費點下午茶也不會找
不知不覺我在公司形同異類
在團體裡變成隱形的存在
工作壓力和件數也少了許多
有時在公司一整天幾乎沒事做
淡季、案子少的閒暇時刻
也懶得跟其他同事交流
寧可把做事步調放慢一些
幫自己爭取休息時間
或者看些股票訊息
想著接下來的投資標的
有個剛畢業的小妹妹
直接了當問我「你這樣上班,不無聊嗎?」
『等妳年紀大了,再回頭問問自己吧。』
回完話我默默地戴起耳機聽歌
繼續把今天的任務完成
有人跟我一樣在職場上是個孤僻的傢伙
但卻非常享受這種工作環境嗎
我覺得這樣子上班壓力變得好小
下班時間還能專心陪伴家人
或是找那幾位真心交陪的朋友相聚
比起跟職場上那些
對於人際關係拓展沒幫助的交際應酬
不用浪費時間去陪笑 尷尬聊天
這樣的生活要來的快樂許多耶
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直到今年才懂這句話的真隨
以前都很嚮往大公司的環境
同部門或者跨部門之間
大家除了公事以外
也會閒聊很多生活瑣事
就像把同事當朋友一般對待
放假也會互相邀約出遊、吃飯
但結婚、生子、成家後
漸漸對這些職場社交感到厭倦
對於同事的態度也不像以往那麼熱絡
上班除了交辦公事以外
幾乎沒講超過10句話
絕對秉持不加班原則
就算加班也要去申請加班費
下班後的各種邀約在第一次時
就直接表明沒空更沒有興趣
從此再也沒有第二次邀約
甚至團購零食、自費點下午茶也不會找
不知不覺我在公司形同異類
在團體裡變成隱形的存在
工作壓力和件數也少了許多
有時在公司一整天幾乎沒事做
淡季、案子少的閒暇時刻
也懶得跟其他同事交流
寧可把做事步調放慢一些
幫自己爭取休息時間
或者看些股票訊息
想著接下來的投資標的
有個剛畢業的小妹妹
直接了當問我「你這樣上班,不無聊嗎?」
『等妳年紀大了,再回頭問問自己吧。』
回完話我默默地戴起耳機聽歌
繼續把今天的任務完成
有人跟我一樣在職場上是個孤僻的傢伙
但卻非常享受這種工作環境嗎
我覺得這樣子上班壓力變得好小
下班時間還能專心陪伴家人
或是找那幾位真心交陪的朋友相聚
比起跟職場上那些
對於人際關係拓展沒幫助的交際應酬
不用浪費時間去陪笑 尷尬聊天
這樣的生活要來的快樂許多耶
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