你的抗壓性在那一層? - 考試
By Tracy
at 2014-07-13T08:17
at 2014-07-13T08:17
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昨天的PO文,有一版友說了一句推文說我"抗壓性"不夠之類的
我想,這"抗壓"的問題,聽起來是格外貶低人的文辭,
雖不舒服,但,我尚且不需要隨之起舞。
每個人對於面對事物的態度,本就不一樣:
我有一很傑出的大學同學,對於功課上的準備,從來就是隨性應對,但因為她的思維邏輯
清晰,臨場反應超好,不論是任何大大小小的考試總是輕鬆過關。
另一有兩個孩子的媽媽同學,事情從不求快,"慢"是她的特徵,萬事不求快,於是她一邊
讀研究所,一邊觀察她該考哪種國考,生完孩子、畢業後,她試著去考考看,第二年再針
對問題去調整,於是一邊帶孩子的她,在第二年也就上榜。
壓力,對於她們兩個而言,似乎不易從外在見到,那是種樂觀的態度。
而我真的是異類,所以"易累"!怎麼說呢?
首先
從家庭背景來看,我想考上得以讓我爸、我媽可以在他們家族可以比較抬頭、昂首些。
(雖然我爸已經過世,但從小他就是最被他兄弟們看不起的;而我媽則覺得她是她姊妹裡
嫁最不好的)
次者
從個人角度,年紀過40,這輩子是不會結婚的,雖說有腦子、工作表現也不差,但曾因為
情感問題影響工作,所以為了未來著想,公務員是真的好處很多。
最後
而從面對問題的態度上,我是很嚴肅以對:針對去年考不好的科目,我會想盡辦法去拉高
分數;對於強項,我則會更希望能多拉些分數。(排名真的沒什麼了不起,排名對我而言,
代表的是你那年太不努力,所以才會差一個名額考上)
於是,對於該背沒背熟,我會覺得自己不用心;或是因為太懶沒多做練習;工具少這個缺
那個,那是自己沒有沙盤推演多實地操作。
而這些強迫性的自我要求,目的只有一種,那就是"我一定要考上"!" 我不要排名,我要
當榜首才能回南部",於是考前我天天失眠;考試那幾天嚴重失眠得吃導眠藥;看錯題目會
自責、申論不夠全面完整會怪自己不夠細心......而這些,我不將其定位在"抗壓性"不夠,
那個說我抗壓性不夠的網友你看到了嗎?真的,這不叫做"抗壓性"不夠!!!
對諸事樂觀而輕鬆處理的人而言,面對事情、處理事情是一種機變,錯了、壞了再來就好,
壓力,從未存在!!
對"慢"有相當藝術哲學的人,時間軸的拉長,並不會影響到最終目的的達成,壓力,從來
未出現在競賽跑步的龜、兔之上。
而對那種只會自己找自己麻煩、針對任何問題斤斤計較的"想太多"同學,壓力就像呼吸一
樣,只是有時候氧氣稀薄,有時候含氧量較多之差而已,如說欠缺,那可能僅是尚未找到
適合自己的方式罷了!!
你的壓力層在哪並不重要,重要的是記得找到自己釋壓的壓力閥!
題外話
今年在國家考場考試,整個一樓都是身體有障礙、困難的考友,這是我第一次親眼見到,
而不是從新聞看到,從手腳不方便到嚴重萎縮的,視力有障礙須有特殊放大鏡看題目的,
進出都需要帶個特殊眼鏡的....不曉得為什麼一陣鼻酸、心酸。在某一節下課抽菸後,
為了貪涼而躲到一樓樓內中庭,有一應該是白化症的考友,應該是視力不好,一直在找光
線夠的地方看書,可,因為位子不多,而有空位的地方又很暗,眼見拿著一堆袋子書的她,
只能站在玻璃窗前...於是,我便請她來坐我的位子(我真的很愛靠窗、光線最好的地方),
讓她能好好準備下一堂;鈴聲響後,我再跟她講,進教室有冷氣,才見她又是衝衝忙忙跑
進去。真的感觸很多,一個人一輩子要面對比平常人有著更多不方便的人,是什麼樣的毅
力與堅持,可以讓她們克服萬難,只求上位?
那我做的努力,夠嗎??
你做的努力,夠嗎?
[閒聊] 紓發讀書壓力或與板友互動,勿濫用此選項挑釁、引戰,或漫無
邊際用此選項發文。
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