因為逃避困難而離職,很不可取嗎? - 離職
By Donna
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因為逃避困難而離職,很不可取嗎?
請問各位前輩,最近一直很苦惱,
小弟今年28,單身無背債,現職為第一份工作,年資三年,
前三年做得還算習慣,工作壓力都還算能應付的範圍,最近剛被外派國外案子,
外派薪資不錯(近100K),但工時長(平均每天12小、一周6天)、壓力是以前三倍大,
下班後或難得的假日,都無法好好放鬆,一直想著工作的事情,每天都在懷疑人生,
雖然知道自己堅持下去一定會收穫很多,無論是工作經驗、英語能力甚至存錢等,
但一想到這種高壓的日子還要撐1-2年,就覺得什麼都不重要了,只想遠離這一切...
遲遲不敢提離職的點:
大多數人離職是因為遇到爛同事、公司制度或想追求更好待遇等原因,
自己只是因為逃避困難而離職,很草莓、沒抗壓性,
別人都是想往上爬而離開,我卻是為了求安逸而放棄大好機會...
也無顏面對江東父老,當初滿懷期待來異地打拼,如今卻逃著回去...
而且提出離職到離開,預告期三十天,這段期間不知該怎麼面對同事、老闆,
想到就覺得好難開口...
想離開的點:
如果人生能選擇,為什麼我要過的這麼累?
理想的工作是朝九晚五,下班後跟假日能安心做自己的事,薪水夠用就好。
雖然下一份工作也沒規劃,但對現在這份工作也沒有留戀,
但反正我是個單身魯宅,沒有另一半的牽掛,積蓄也夠我不工作生活五年,
打算先休息個半年一年,總之就只想先離開再說。
目前的狀態就是,想離職提不起勇氣,但也沒有拚下去的動力,
真的很徬徨,需要各位前輩們的意見,要砲我草莓的還請小力一點,
感謝你們。
--
請問各位前輩,最近一直很苦惱,
小弟今年28,單身無背債,現職為第一份工作,年資三年,
前三年做得還算習慣,工作壓力都還算能應付的範圍,最近剛被外派國外案子,
外派薪資不錯(近100K),但工時長(平均每天12小、一周6天)、壓力是以前三倍大,
下班後或難得的假日,都無法好好放鬆,一直想著工作的事情,每天都在懷疑人生,
雖然知道自己堅持下去一定會收穫很多,無論是工作經驗、英語能力甚至存錢等,
但一想到這種高壓的日子還要撐1-2年,就覺得什麼都不重要了,只想遠離這一切...
遲遲不敢提離職的點:
大多數人離職是因為遇到爛同事、公司制度或想追求更好待遇等原因,
自己只是因為逃避困難而離職,很草莓、沒抗壓性,
別人都是想往上爬而離開,我卻是為了求安逸而放棄大好機會...
也無顏面對江東父老,當初滿懷期待來異地打拼,如今卻逃著回去...
而且提出離職到離開,預告期三十天,這段期間不知該怎麼面對同事、老闆,
想到就覺得好難開口...
想離開的點:
如果人生能選擇,為什麼我要過的這麼累?
理想的工作是朝九晚五,下班後跟假日能安心做自己的事,薪水夠用就好。
雖然下一份工作也沒規劃,但對現在這份工作也沒有留戀,
但反正我是個單身魯宅,沒有另一半的牽掛,積蓄也夠我不工作生活五年,
打算先休息個半年一年,總之就只想先離開再說。
目前的狀態就是,想離職提不起勇氣,但也沒有拚下去的動力,
真的很徬徨,需要各位前輩們的意見,要砲我草莓的還請小力一點,
感謝你們。
--
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