該不該接家業?(長照相關) - 職場
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各位前輩好
這個問題在板上已經有不少討論了,但還是想聽聽大家的意見
背景:
小妹今年20歲,在外縣市就讀科大護理系(被逼去的,我讀的很痛苦),家中是開長照
相關產業,年收入不確定,但應該至少有200萬,排行長女,下面有弟弟妹妹各1。
從小我爸希望我家三個小孩都可以接家業一起打拼,但真正有意願接班的只有我弟,我
和我妹一直都蠻抗拒的。
當初我爸也是承諾,只要我去讀了護理系就不會管我未來職業要做什麼,所以才勉強去
讀。
我本來的計畫是大學畢業前先考到國立研究所(公衛or生統),研究所先休學兩年去醫
院工作磨一下再回去唸書,畢業後就在外面工作或出國進修,但我爸前陣子忽然叫我回
家接家業,研究所也不要考了。
事情經過:
家裡的長照機構主要都是媽媽在管理經營,爸爸就是...耍廢、每天賭博,賺的錢幾乎都
被賭掉了,不過我爸都錢都他賺的,還常嫌我媽沒做什麼事情,我媽全年無休每天工作
至少10小時,任誰都沒辦法忍受吧。
這幾年父母感情不和常常吵架,我媽就漸漸不管公司了,這兩年都是爸爸在做,整個慘
不忍賭,各方面都2266,員工流動率很高,政府機關要求的行政資料都沒有做,和我媽
經營的時候差非常多。
最近父母確定要離婚了,公司全部歸我爸,本來預計之後要接班的弟弟太散,而且明年
要評鑑,以目前的狀況評鑑一定不會通過,我爸就希望我能夠假日的時候回家幫忙工作
未來接手家業(收拾爛攤子),但說實在我對家業真的沒有興趣,我爸找我回去就是因
為明年要評鑑了,要趕快把之前積了三年的行政資料全部補齊
(因為疫情長照機構的評鑑停辦兩年了,光一年評鑑的資料就有100多本,接手後我要平
日在外縣市的讀書,假日要回家處理積了三年的資料)
重點是這些東西完全都要自己學,因為我爸完全不會,我媽也表明不碰公司的事情了,
雖然有請員工但也都做的不好。
一個普通大學生怎麼有辦法自學這些事情,政府機關要的資料都很繁瑣,但我爸就是覺
得那些東西我看一下就會了,然後就是一堆情緒勒索的環節(ex.你不回家接班就讓公司
倒掉啊,大家一起餓死)
我爸最近也打算要把許多公司的負責人名稱換成我,如果不幸出事情的話,是我要去承
擔法律責任..長照機構出事是跟人命有關的,我的人生就..
總結不想接班的原因:
1.我爸的個性沒人受得了,辛苦付出,他還會嫌你沒有用、根本沒做什麼,控制欲又很
強,我爸目前50歲,離退休還有一段時間
2.我很怕我會變成我媽那個樣子,辛苦賺錢給我爸花,毫無生活品質可言,我弟跟我爸
也是一個樣^_^
3.我和我爸的做事方法差太多,我是一板一眼照規矩的人,我爸很愛鑽漏洞、不尊重別
人,出事的時候還跑第一,讓我媽自己去跟家屬下跪道歉還被辱罵
4.我對家業真的沒興趣,不想一輩子就被綁在這邊,想趁年輕的時候出去闖一闖。接家
業讓我覺得自己很靠爸很沒用
5.這個爛攤子真的很難收拾,我也覺得自己沒那個能力把他做好,倒閉的話變成我的責
任
接班的好處:
1.至少會有穩定收入,出去工作的話一切都是未知數
2.長照是未來趨勢
從小到大很多人都很羨慕我,長大就能接手家業當富二代,但我一直很厭惡這件事情,
覺得人生都被別人規劃好了,我只是一粒棋子,但現在又有點抵抗不了家人的情緒勒索
。
個人是偏向照原計劃出去闖看看,但小妹沒什麼社會經驗,因此想要聽看看職場前輩們
的看法~
--
這個問題在板上已經有不少討論了,但還是想聽聽大家的意見
背景:
小妹今年20歲,在外縣市就讀科大護理系(被逼去的,我讀的很痛苦),家中是開長照
相關產業,年收入不確定,但應該至少有200萬,排行長女,下面有弟弟妹妹各1。
從小我爸希望我家三個小孩都可以接家業一起打拼,但真正有意願接班的只有我弟,我
和我妹一直都蠻抗拒的。
當初我爸也是承諾,只要我去讀了護理系就不會管我未來職業要做什麼,所以才勉強去
讀。
我本來的計畫是大學畢業前先考到國立研究所(公衛or生統),研究所先休學兩年去醫
院工作磨一下再回去唸書,畢業後就在外面工作或出國進修,但我爸前陣子忽然叫我回
家接家業,研究所也不要考了。
事情經過:
家裡的長照機構主要都是媽媽在管理經營,爸爸就是...耍廢、每天賭博,賺的錢幾乎都
被賭掉了,不過我爸都錢都他賺的,還常嫌我媽沒做什麼事情,我媽全年無休每天工作
至少10小時,任誰都沒辦法忍受吧。
這幾年父母感情不和常常吵架,我媽就漸漸不管公司了,這兩年都是爸爸在做,整個慘
不忍賭,各方面都2266,員工流動率很高,政府機關要求的行政資料都沒有做,和我媽
經營的時候差非常多。
最近父母確定要離婚了,公司全部歸我爸,本來預計之後要接班的弟弟太散,而且明年
要評鑑,以目前的狀況評鑑一定不會通過,我爸就希望我能夠假日的時候回家幫忙工作
未來接手家業(收拾爛攤子),但說實在我對家業真的沒有興趣,我爸找我回去就是因
為明年要評鑑了,要趕快把之前積了三年的行政資料全部補齊
(因為疫情長照機構的評鑑停辦兩年了,光一年評鑑的資料就有100多本,接手後我要平
日在外縣市的讀書,假日要回家處理積了三年的資料)
重點是這些東西完全都要自己學,因為我爸完全不會,我媽也表明不碰公司的事情了,
雖然有請員工但也都做的不好。
一個普通大學生怎麼有辦法自學這些事情,政府機關要的資料都很繁瑣,但我爸就是覺
得那些東西我看一下就會了,然後就是一堆情緒勒索的環節(ex.你不回家接班就讓公司
倒掉啊,大家一起餓死)
我爸最近也打算要把許多公司的負責人名稱換成我,如果不幸出事情的話,是我要去承
擔法律責任..長照機構出事是跟人命有關的,我的人生就..
總結不想接班的原因:
1.我爸的個性沒人受得了,辛苦付出,他還會嫌你沒有用、根本沒做什麼,控制欲又很
強,我爸目前50歲,離退休還有一段時間
2.我很怕我會變成我媽那個樣子,辛苦賺錢給我爸花,毫無生活品質可言,我弟跟我爸
也是一個樣^_^
3.我和我爸的做事方法差太多,我是一板一眼照規矩的人,我爸很愛鑽漏洞、不尊重別
人,出事的時候還跑第一,讓我媽自己去跟家屬下跪道歉還被辱罵
4.我對家業真的沒興趣,不想一輩子就被綁在這邊,想趁年輕的時候出去闖一闖。接家
業讓我覺得自己很靠爸很沒用
5.這個爛攤子真的很難收拾,我也覺得自己沒那個能力把他做好,倒閉的話變成我的責
任
接班的好處:
1.至少會有穩定收入,出去工作的話一切都是未知數
2.長照是未來趨勢
從小到大很多人都很羨慕我,長大就能接手家業當富二代,但我一直很厭惡這件事情,
覺得人生都被別人規劃好了,我只是一粒棋子,但現在又有點抵抗不了家人的情緒勒索
。
個人是偏向照原計劃出去闖看看,但小妹沒什麼社會經驗,因此想要聽看看職場前輩們
的看法~
--
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