該繼續待下去嗎?懇請給建議 - 職場

By John
at 2010-06-08T18:07
at 2010-06-08T18:07
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懇請大家給我一點建議,謝謝!
我進入職場已經將近六年了,今年剛滿三十歲。
在目前的公司其實做的一直不開心,主要是個性問題,不適應目前的公司文化
不懂得表現,所以即使天天都很努力(加班或早到絕對不會少)
卻還是得不到升遷機會,每天都覺得壓力很大很不開心。
原本已經打算離開這間公司,但因緣際會下在別的部門找到了別的職務,就這樣一頭栽了進去
公司還算大,所以這個職務是我入社會六年後一個全新的領域,我又從毫無基礎開始了
轉到新職務才一個多月,發現新職務內容與原本想像的有不少落差
好處是若在這邊待下來,因為是大公司,以後想找相關職務內容必定會容易不少
但壞處是現在的我每天都非常痛苦,早上約九點進公司,晚上不到八九點後是別想離開的(沒有加班費或車費那些)
而且這不會是暫時的情況,是天天都是這樣
我現在卡在兩難,難的是這份工作的薪水還不錯,在別的地方目前比較難找到相當的薪水
但另一難是,我不適應公司文化(給了自己三年的時間適應,到現在還是無法融入)每天都是非常非常的痛苦
會說每天是因為,我已經到了幾乎病態的程度了,每天上班很痛苦,下班也很痛苦(因為想著在公司無法解決的問題)
週末假日很慌張,因為心裡倒數著還有多少時間就要回去上班了
可以說除了賺到錢,我失去了其他的全部。
先生也因為我每天的陰情不定受害,在忍了三年之後終於在幾天前認真說出了不改變狀況就要離婚的話。
請大家給我一點建議好嗎?我現在卡在到底是要再撐個11個月,好讓我的履歷能記上這一筆
(先前是做設計,沒有別的經驗,能有新的職務經驗對我會是很大的幫助,因為我已經不想再做設計)
還是應該離開?
再待下去我知道以我的個性,這個痛苦會天天持續,但若待下去,每月有還不錯的薪水,以後找工作也會方便一些。
可否請大家給我一點建議,這幾天我來回反覆地思考這個問題,到底該走還是該留?如果您是我,會做怎麼樣的決定?
如果要走,該說實話嗎?因為當初內部轉調也是有面試的,說自己待不下去會不會好像耍了人家?
先謝謝看完全文的人,請給我一點建議吧!
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