能給單親媽媽建議嗎?(文長) - 職場
By Michael
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at 2019-11-20T17:34
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...我是一個未婚單親媽媽,20歲時不懂事就不小心懷孕,不得不暫時放棄大學課業先休
學,原以為男友是個真心疼愛我的好男人,都說好會結婚一起面對,沒料到趁我坐月子時
找其他女生亂來…當時真的心碎夢碎痛苦萬分,家人看不下去鼓勵我離開渣男,先完成學
業再找工作獨自扶養女兒。
好不容易大學畢業了,想趕緊進入職場生活分擔家計,終於找到現在的公司肯栽培我,滿
懷感激認真開始我的第一份工作,好景不常,因為公司的營運出了點問題,請了資深的前
主管再回到崗位幫忙,我的惡夢就此開始…
當初面試時有做身家調查,為了避免日後有不必要的閒言閒語,我老實地把未婚生子的原
因告知這主管,沒想到他不知道是有道德潔癖還是惡意歧視我,盡是在工作上百般刁難我
,故意把別人的業務掛在我身上。我出錯時會當眾人面前數落我,甚至故意提到我會未婚
生子就是因為太笨又不檢點造成的,有時候下班後他要跟客戶喝酒應酬時還會強迫我陪同
參加,害我臨時還要找人去接我女兒,跟他抱怨就拿考核跟扣錢來威脅我,有時候甚至覺
得是不是有提告的空間了(勞基法跟公然侮辱)...
因為他的職位高權力大,同事們只能勸我不要理會,提告的話我也怕會惹出更多麻煩只好
忍氣吞聲。所以我現在做得很不開心,有時候還因此失眠,早上起床時心裡都很掙扎是否
該繼續這份工作。
好朋友最近在找工作,和我提到1111有幸福企業的選項,打聽到了下面2個不錯的公司,
問我要不要一起跳槽,環境和薪水條件都很不錯。有做了簡易表格評估中
https://i.imgur.com/dXiwt0q.jpg
但其實目前這份工作給我的待遇很高,最重要的是能準時下班接女兒回家(女兒目前小5)
,每年還有家庭日可以帶女兒去公司的活動,跟同事之間相處也很愉快。
新公司的話,A公司雖然比較大而且可能比較穩定,但是我目前跟朋友討論傾向是B公司,
因為通勤跟加班問題,跟女兒相處時間可能會變少,要重新適應新環境我是不怕,而且考
量到之後女兒的教育及其他開銷可能會再加大,B公司的業績獎金分紅應該可以Cover過去
,平均月薪應該可以超過目前公司。
但說實在一下子要離開已經工作好幾年的環境談何容易,也想多陪陪女兒,遲遲無法下定
決心,想聽聽大家的建議。謝謝大家。
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學,原以為男友是個真心疼愛我的好男人,都說好會結婚一起面對,沒料到趁我坐月子時
找其他女生亂來…當時真的心碎夢碎痛苦萬分,家人看不下去鼓勵我離開渣男,先完成學
業再找工作獨自扶養女兒。
好不容易大學畢業了,想趕緊進入職場生活分擔家計,終於找到現在的公司肯栽培我,滿
懷感激認真開始我的第一份工作,好景不常,因為公司的營運出了點問題,請了資深的前
主管再回到崗位幫忙,我的惡夢就此開始…
當初面試時有做身家調查,為了避免日後有不必要的閒言閒語,我老實地把未婚生子的原
因告知這主管,沒想到他不知道是有道德潔癖還是惡意歧視我,盡是在工作上百般刁難我
,故意把別人的業務掛在我身上。我出錯時會當眾人面前數落我,甚至故意提到我會未婚
生子就是因為太笨又不檢點造成的,有時候下班後他要跟客戶喝酒應酬時還會強迫我陪同
參加,害我臨時還要找人去接我女兒,跟他抱怨就拿考核跟扣錢來威脅我,有時候甚至覺
得是不是有提告的空間了(勞基法跟公然侮辱)...
因為他的職位高權力大,同事們只能勸我不要理會,提告的話我也怕會惹出更多麻煩只好
忍氣吞聲。所以我現在做得很不開心,有時候還因此失眠,早上起床時心裡都很掙扎是否
該繼續這份工作。
好朋友最近在找工作,和我提到1111有幸福企業的選項,打聽到了下面2個不錯的公司,
問我要不要一起跳槽,環境和薪水條件都很不錯。有做了簡易表格評估中
https://i.imgur.com/dXiwt0q.jpg
但其實目前這份工作給我的待遇很高,最重要的是能準時下班接女兒回家(女兒目前小5)
,每年還有家庭日可以帶女兒去公司的活動,跟同事之間相處也很愉快。
新公司的話,A公司雖然比較大而且可能比較穩定,但是我目前跟朋友討論傾向是B公司,
因為通勤跟加班問題,跟女兒相處時間可能會變少,要重新適應新環境我是不怕,而且考
量到之後女兒的教育及其他開銷可能會再加大,B公司的業績獎金分紅應該可以Cover過去
,平均月薪應該可以超過目前公司。
但說實在一下子要離開已經工作好幾年的環境談何容易,也想多陪陪女兒,遲遲無法下定
決心,想聽聽大家的建議。謝謝大家。
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