同事間的人際關係真的會影響工作心情 - 職場
By Anonymous
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at 2013-10-10T20:25
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看到板上這篇文章,相當心有戚戚焉
□ [問題] 該不該因為同事離職?
因為我也正面臨這樣的情況。
但問題不在於我的同事,我想是在於我。
我覺得同事真的在工作生活中扮演一個很重要且影響性的腳色..
(此篇絕非討拍,反而我覺得我想要藉由我自己血淋淋的例子,
提供給大家職場上與同事相處的借鏡。 千萬別像我一樣啊QQ)
--
進這家公司一年半了,部門的氣氛非常歡樂
因為大家年齡都很相近,都是20幾歲的年輕人
整個樓層最吵的就是我們這層樓,因為大家上班常常聊天聊得很開心,很大聲
同事們每個都是天使,毫無內鬥等負面文化,感情也很要好,每天中午都會一起吃飯
可是我卻融入不了,覺得自己格格不入。
我的座位距離部門核心人物群(也就是主要會帶頭吵鬧的那群)比較遠
常常他們在討論什麽有趣的話題的時候,我都插不上話,
或者甚至是我回應了幾句話,他們有時也聽不見(因為太遠)
久而久之就很少和他們聊天
中午時段我常常得做其他工作,或是需要午休,所以也沒有和他們吃飯
因為我早上有會議會比較早到公司,加上家住較遠,所以也都會比他們早下班
私底下也幾乎不會相約出去,只有偶爾在臉書上虛寒問暖一下
--
待久了漸漸有感受到自己與同事之間的隔離感
本來我不是很care,因為我本來就是希望把公和私切得很開的那一種人
我也不希望因為要刻意討好同事,就強逼自己不要午休、待在公司很晚
影響自己的工作精神和下班後的生活
但說實在有的時候又會很羨慕,因為看到同學們好像都跟他們的同事很要好
我也才剛畢業的第一份工作,好像就應該把工作 = 人生,同事 = 朋友 ?
在看到比我晚進來的兩三個新同事,
都可以迅速在一兩個禮拜內和部門同事打好交道、迅速混熟
還集體請假去南部玩,每個周末各地跑透透臉書狂打卡
必須很誠實地說真的,有的時候看到臉書心都酸酸的 (所以又更逃避不用了QQ)
也更加確定,問題是在我,不是在於別人。怨不得
有很多人可能會嗆,「你活該啊,誰叫你不付出時間與感情經營」
我覺得罵得一點也不錯,我會這麼不融入都是自找的
但是一開始就已經沒有和大家吃飯、一起幹嘛等等的習慣,
突然自己180度大轉變變得超主動,真的是有點奇怪。
所以已經來不及了.......
我的個性本來是很外向開朗的,缺點就是非常被動
但是在這裡的每一天,都讓我極度覺得缺氧
我也鼓勵我自己下一份工作絕對不能這樣,要一開始就多多參與同事的活動、多接觸
一切重頭來過.....
大概半年時就想離開,每天上班都想走,
但為了資歷牙一咬忍到現在,也差不多一年半了
應該也是時候換個環境重新來過了吧?
有的時候也覺得有點丟臉。過去在學校我都是不論跟誰都可以處得好的那種人
沒想到一進入職場,卻在人際上面臨這樣的挫敗。
讓我每天都很擔心自己是不是快得自閉症了,或是患了人群恐懼症
看來,是沒有真正的「同事」的。
公司其實也是一個小型的學校,要學的,還有很多......
這樣的離職原因,應該不會很瞎吧?
--
□ [問題] 該不該因為同事離職?
因為我也正面臨這樣的情況。
但問題不在於我的同事,我想是在於我。
我覺得同事真的在工作生活中扮演一個很重要且影響性的腳色..
(此篇絕非討拍,反而我覺得我想要藉由我自己血淋淋的例子,
提供給大家職場上與同事相處的借鏡。 千萬別像我一樣啊QQ)
--
進這家公司一年半了,部門的氣氛非常歡樂
因為大家年齡都很相近,都是20幾歲的年輕人
整個樓層最吵的就是我們這層樓,因為大家上班常常聊天聊得很開心,很大聲
同事們每個都是天使,毫無內鬥等負面文化,感情也很要好,每天中午都會一起吃飯
可是我卻融入不了,覺得自己格格不入。
我的座位距離部門核心人物群(也就是主要會帶頭吵鬧的那群)比較遠
常常他們在討論什麽有趣的話題的時候,我都插不上話,
或者甚至是我回應了幾句話,他們有時也聽不見(因為太遠)
久而久之就很少和他們聊天
中午時段我常常得做其他工作,或是需要午休,所以也沒有和他們吃飯
因為我早上有會議會比較早到公司,加上家住較遠,所以也都會比他們早下班
私底下也幾乎不會相約出去,只有偶爾在臉書上虛寒問暖一下
--
待久了漸漸有感受到自己與同事之間的隔離感
本來我不是很care,因為我本來就是希望把公和私切得很開的那一種人
我也不希望因為要刻意討好同事,就強逼自己不要午休、待在公司很晚
影響自己的工作精神和下班後的生活
但說實在有的時候又會很羨慕,因為看到同學們好像都跟他們的同事很要好
我也才剛畢業的第一份工作,好像就應該把工作 = 人生,同事 = 朋友 ?
在看到比我晚進來的兩三個新同事,
都可以迅速在一兩個禮拜內和部門同事打好交道、迅速混熟
還集體請假去南部玩,每個周末各地跑透透臉書狂打卡
必須很誠實地說真的,有的時候看到臉書心都酸酸的 (所以又更逃避不用了QQ)
也更加確定,問題是在我,不是在於別人。怨不得
有很多人可能會嗆,「你活該啊,誰叫你不付出時間與感情經營」
我覺得罵得一點也不錯,我會這麼不融入都是自找的
但是一開始就已經沒有和大家吃飯、一起幹嘛等等的習慣,
突然自己180度大轉變變得超主動,真的是有點奇怪。
所以已經來不及了.......
我的個性本來是很外向開朗的,缺點就是非常被動
但是在這裡的每一天,都讓我極度覺得缺氧
我也鼓勵我自己下一份工作絕對不能這樣,要一開始就多多參與同事的活動、多接觸
一切重頭來過.....
大概半年時就想離開,每天上班都想走,
但為了資歷牙一咬忍到現在,也差不多一年半了
應該也是時候換個環境重新來過了吧?
有的時候也覺得有點丟臉。過去在學校我都是不論跟誰都可以處得好的那種人
沒想到一進入職場,卻在人際上面臨這樣的挫敗。
讓我每天都很擔心自己是不是快得自閉症了,或是患了人群恐懼症
看來,是沒有真正的「同事」的。
公司其實也是一個小型的學校,要學的,還有很多......
這樣的離職原因,應該不會很瞎吧?
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