害怕找工作怎麼辦 - 職場
By Skylar Davis
at 2018-05-13T01:28
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我是大學剛畢業的學生,
其實也不算剛畢業,
大學唸臺北私校五年,
有本科系與教程的畢業證書,
前幾個月也考上教師證,
即將24歲。
同屆的同學普遍已有一、二年的工作經驗,
和我一起畢業的夥伴也陸陸續續找了工作,
但我似乎還在迷惘。
前陣子有刊登履歷在人力銀行上,
因為自身條件不算太差,
所以幾乎每天都會有公司打電話請我面試,
但我總以「和家人討論之後再回電」推託,
原因是因為我真的太害怕了。
有時候會充滿自信的想去找工作,
但當真正面對時,
就會開始退縮。
「我真的能變成獨當一面的人嗎?」
「我真的可以做好這件事嗎?」
「我真的適合這個工作嗎?」
家人對我很寬容,
認為工作慢慢找就好、
也希望我能有幾個月的時間放空,
還是持續著給我不錯的生活費,
但他們其實不清楚我的狀況-對自己的不信任和對未知的恐懼。
每天不停思索,但還是沒有解。
他們越寬容,我越覺得自己懦弱,
我不知道我的恐懼來自哪裡,
或許是常聽同學抱怨職場、抱怨工作,
害怕自己不能應付可能會有的狀況。
有時候看別人很輕易的就找到工作(我知道找工作不容易),
就更加深自己的痛苦。
不知道大家在出社會前會不會有這些問題,
可不可以替我指點迷津,唉。
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其實也不算剛畢業,
大學唸臺北私校五年,
有本科系與教程的畢業證書,
前幾個月也考上教師證,
即將24歲。
同屆的同學普遍已有一、二年的工作經驗,
和我一起畢業的夥伴也陸陸續續找了工作,
但我似乎還在迷惘。
前陣子有刊登履歷在人力銀行上,
因為自身條件不算太差,
所以幾乎每天都會有公司打電話請我面試,
但我總以「和家人討論之後再回電」推託,
原因是因為我真的太害怕了。
有時候會充滿自信的想去找工作,
但當真正面對時,
就會開始退縮。
「我真的能變成獨當一面的人嗎?」
「我真的可以做好這件事嗎?」
「我真的適合這個工作嗎?」
家人對我很寬容,
認為工作慢慢找就好、
也希望我能有幾個月的時間放空,
還是持續著給我不錯的生活費,
但他們其實不清楚我的狀況-對自己的不信任和對未知的恐懼。
每天不停思索,但還是沒有解。
他們越寬容,我越覺得自己懦弱,
我不知道我的恐懼來自哪裡,
或許是常聽同學抱怨職場、抱怨工作,
害怕自己不能應付可能會有的狀況。
有時候看別人很輕易的就找到工作(我知道找工作不容易),
就更加深自己的痛苦。
不知道大家在出社會前會不會有這些問題,
可不可以替我指點迷津,唉。
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